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We dated 8 years ago. We never had sex. Our relationship lasted only a month because he went back to his ex girlfriend. It was a bad break up since he did not even dump me. He just went MIA. After we broke up, he went down the wrong path and got arrested. He was obviously hanging around bad people. He was just a bad person. All of our mutual friends don’t like him. He and his ex also broke up not long after.

Fast forward today (8 years later), he all of sudden followed me on Instagram and messaged me. We are both single and have the same type of dog. We also share a lot similarities. We exchanged numbers started texting. He claims that he makes good money as a mortgage broker and wants to be a boss one day. He also claims that he has changed a lot and called his old self stupid. Honestly, he sometimes sounds “conceited” and somewhat rude which pisses me off. For example, I told him I found out Dominican men really likes me... he responded “No, I think they just like everyone”. I cooked dinner, took pictures of the food I made, and sent it to him. His response was, “It looks okay, I cook better and my friends always compliment my cooking... i make the best pasta dishes!!!” He also seems to underestimate what I do and a bit judgmental. Honestly, it’s a super turn off the way he talks.

He asked me out to dinner on Friday and going out with his friends for drinks later. I’m thinking to bail. My best friend suggested me to just go and see what happens. I’m not even sure if he is interested or just wanna be friends. Also, my sister saw him on a dating app (maybe he is desperate).

Should I just bail? And forget about him?

So There is this guy I was with for severals months, he used me as a rebound to get back with his ex.
He tought I didn’t know that.

Few weeks ago, he contacted me, saying he misses me etc, that he was happy when we were together blabla.
He proposed to meet etc but I never accepted. I know he just want to use me again cause his relationship doesn’t work with this girl.

Now he is contacting me cause his girlfriend (the ex) now wants to contact me, cause she thinks I’m the one flirting with his man, she wants to know what’s going on. He is afraid that we talked to each other, cause she will find out that he played her too.

I really really really want to talk to this girl so we can both dump him. I want to teach him a lesson that you shouldn’t play with people.

SHOULD I CONTACT THIS GIRL?

Tell me what you think in the comments section please