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There’s 2 incidents that happened when I was about a few months into my relationship with my boyfriend. I work at a retail store that really pushes us to get people to sign up for the store’s credit card, our jobs depended on it. Anyway, I was walking around the mall to ask people to sign up and I asked this guy. He said he’d sign up for it only because I have a nice body. I thanked him but asked him more questions about where he was from since I lived in this city all of my life and I’ve never seen him anywhere. We chatted about the schools we went to on the way back, and he signed up for the card. He asked for my number and I gave it to him because I wanted to know him more, at the time I didn’t really know why, I was just curious about him. He then said he was going to get some food and I requested to bring me back a milkshake and he did. He did ask if I would do sexual things with him but I declined. He didn’t really respond to my messages, I only sent him a couple of texts. I did find him on social media and we are following each other to this day, but never communicated on there.

The 2nd time was a few months later when I misheard this guy’s last name and thought he said “handsome.” He thought I was complimenting him when I just didn’t hear him. He told me he worked with my sibling later and we exchanged numbers just as a way for me to keep tabs on that sibling (he lies about where he is a lot) and for my boyfriend for later use because he’s going into that same field. We only texted for 2-3 days because he was sending kiss emojis and that made me uncomfortable. He even came by my workplace with snacks even though I told him he didn’t need to. He sent me an extra text before we stopped texting altogether.

When I did try to come clean about it to my boyfriend when it happened, I lied. I said I didn’t give my number to these guys and didn’t take up the milkshake offer just because he allowed his female friend to his room during that time period.

These are signs I saw to my boyfriend

1. He blames the government for accusing him stealing money and raping girls.
2. He demands to me to bank loan, make business proposal for investors, look for investors, motorbike loan, buying foods and others. He get mad if I don't follow him.
3. He said he has to find other girls to use for loan.
4. We often quarrel if I caught him chatting other girls, he said u don't want me to earn money?
5. He blames me for cheating because I don't cook for him and clean the house. He has mentally abuse me with words like cheap, dog, useless, animal.
7. He used me to loan to get motorbike. He get mad if I don't follow his demands like sleeping late at night, buying him foods, business papers, bank applications and others.
8. He is so intense in sex that sometimes he doesn't care it hurt me.
9. He lie a lot where he goes and who he is with.
10. I caught him talking to other girls, saying my girl and babe. which he said just nothing.
11. He meets other girls behind my back for hookups.

I don’t why I can’t live him even if he clearly treats me bad. He admit he is a player and jokingly say to me, you are a victim.

He ask me to pay for foods, signed up for loans, pay for tickets, medical, gasoline, cigarettes/loads. He never gave me a thing or even just a flower. He got mad if I cannot help him financially and start calling me irresponsible! Or cheap! Fucking idiot.

He fucked other people in our rented house while I am at work, just strangers he even just met online dating sites. He rejected me sex a lot of times and making me crave for it. He was mad when I sell his old things that he no longer use, he told me sell your body, not my things!

I once met his ex girlfriend and she told me you are so pathetic to be having a relationship with him. She told me he is gonna treat you bad if you are already useless. He also cheated to her and even beaten her up

until, such time I found my ex cheating on me and having another girlfriend. And he said I admit I fool you. And said, I never love anyone. If he never love anyone, how come he had so many gf’s like more than 20 in the past?