Search Results: when a husband and wife cheat

If it's not too much, too sexual I don't see the problem. It's not a reason to cheat before the wedding.
Otherwise I will have one and my future husband will have one. No problem.

I once dated a Mexican guy (he was 25 at the time) who explained that even though some parts of Mexico can still be a Machista (chauvinism) culture, there are female cheaters too. He tried his best to be the decent husband any woman would want. He gave his wife anything, took her on trips and remained a hardworking, conservative, faithful guy. He didn't know what he did wrong to get cheated like that.

Yet, she still cheated with his former best friend. It ended in him punching the hell out of his friend and throwing all her clothes and stuff outside. So some women still over there too. That was a cheating Mexican wife. Are you surprised?

Could be girlfriend/boyfriend, fiancé, wife/husband

Privacy - doesn’t share everything going on in their personal life, likes to keep a few things private.

Isn’t loyal - doesn’t mention a significant other specifically to other people they might find attractive, so that maybe if their current relationship fails they’ll have a backup or maybe even cheat on the current relationship

Doesn’t talk much - similar to privacy but just not much of a talker, doesn’t really think of mentioning stuff like that.

My husband said it made him feel like he had a trophy wife knowing most other men want me but only he has me. It added to his confidence.

On the other end of the spectrum, I have had men behave in insanely jealous ways because they know how many other men want me.

One went through my emails determined to prove I was cheating, because I had so many options. He started yelling at me for emails he found from 5 years before we even met! I went on a date with a guy when we were just friends (before dating), and he tried to convince me the guy made a sex tape and he blackmailed the guy into not releasing me to save me. The guy and I never even had sex. We were fully clothed the whole time, kissed a bit, and then I decided he was not for me at all. He snuck into my phone and stole pictures I had from years before. He went on my social media and deleted any man.

He and others attacked male friends to me.

Other guys constantly ask me who I have been with recently and scoff with disbelief when I say no one. They say, "A hot girl like you? Yeah right. You have men knocking down your door." Yes, but I don't want to have sex with every guy who pursues me.

The most recent ex turned it into a competition in his head. He saw that if I actually tried I could get over 1,000 date offers in 24 hours. It really messed with him. He spent years trying to get attention from other women as if it was a competition. He kept cheating with girls way below even his own standards, because he was afraid he'd never get the chance again. He felt validated for a moment until the next 100 rejections piled on and he felt lonely, desperate, and worthless again. He lost his family over it. He didn't even really like the girls or the sex. He had better at home in every way, but he became obsessed. We couldn't even have sex because he lost all of the confidence that attracted me to him and couldn't perform. It really changed him for the worst. He lost sight of what he had over something so petty.

There’s this couple I know that the wife is very supportive of her husband. She does everything for him and gives lots of affection. She does everything around the house; all the cooking and cleaning. The husband seems really happy and seems to love the attention from her. Though I’ve never really seen him give affection back or anything. Though he’s cheating on her with a much younger woman. I don’t think she knows and we’re not good of friends for me to say anything. I’ve caught him with this other woman but he never saw me. I just don’t understand why he would risk losing his wife that he is so happy with.