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I do. I’m sorry but from 15 to about 30 they have all the power in sex and dating. They’re fed so much bullshit it’s laughable. “Don’t have sex outside of marriage. The right man will wait”, “Don’t worry about getting a man. Work on yourself and build your career and find a man later”. What they don’t realize is most men aren’t going to wait for sex. When we like you, we want to fuck you. End of story, so when you hit us with “ I’m waiting until marriage to have sex” we leave. Why the hell should I invest my life and half my stuff in you then find out after the fact that you suck in bed or that you’re going to withhold sex from me. And your purpose is not careers ladies. Your purpose is marriage and babies. Men want to start relationships young, you girls want education, briefcases and corporate positions and thus throw good men away and sleep around for the sake of career advancement, then you arrive at thirty when your looks go to shit and think you’re still entitled to good men. Guess what honey, those good men are now courting, marrying and starting families with smart, pretty young women who USED to be you. And even if you are still pretty, you’re still not good for anything more than a one time fuck. Yet many of you still think you deserve love. Guess what! You don’t. You threw away many chances of finding love. Your only choice is to shut up and find some dumb beta simp who is willing to marry you or get cats. By the way, the only reason the beta simp is marrying you is because he’s to ugly and broke to get the hot young girls. And yes, my bitterness stems from being rejected left right and sideways by you bitches. If you’re over thirty and still not married, you fucked up and it’s your own fault. STOP CHOOSING CAREERS OVER MARRIAGE AND FAMILY!

To the men of GAG who take every opportunity to put down these bitches and remind them that they are NOTHING without marriage, you’re my heroes!

My wife has had sex with 2 men before me. I lost my virginity to her.

Since the start I’ve always felt repulsed at the thought that other men have put their penises up her vagina. It affects my intimacy with her sometimes.

I don’t know. I love her and wish she was only mine. It sucks. I wish people were willing to wait for something special these days.

So over the holiday my mother and I were talking and dating came up. I'm a virgin who never dated and not concerned about it right now because I'm focusing on myself. Since this was a private conversation and I'm close to my mother, I came out and told her that I only want to date another virgin and I'm willing to wait until marriage. She didn't go crazy or anything, but she tried to convince me otherwise, asked me even if she only had sex 1 time before you'd still wouldn't date her, and I said no I wouldn't. We ended up debating back and forth and eventually I just said "I chose to save myself for someone special and I just ask for the same in return", but what she said next very much insulted me. She said "well a woman only has sex when she's in love, and sometimes her feelings were't right, and you should be more considerate and accept it." It sounded like she was telling me to just give myself away regardless of what I want. Just give myself to whoever like a charity food stamp. I know she didn't mean it and was trying to help, but I couldn't help but to feel offended. I didn't bring this up because I still respect my mother, but this is what her dating and sex life was.

She lost her virginity at 13.
Dated a guy in his mid 20's when she was 15.
Got pregnant by said guy and had my sister at 16 then my brother at 21.
We still don't know who my biological father is because she was hooking up with random guys while living at some old guy's house, and that old guy might even be my father because she was sleeping with him too.
She's been married 3 times and didn't have children with any of the men she married.

Both my older brother and sister had their first child at 17. My sister is an overweight single mother in her mid 30s and my brother in being divorced for cheating on his wife and is running off with a girl he already got pregnant, and his child support looks like a shopping list.

If I'm going to get into a relationship, I want something that's special.