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My friends keep saying “you need to be alone for a while... for months.” My (ex) boyfriend says “we both need to be alone a while. Im focused on my car and school and my video games. If we get back together, by or before summer, then ok, but right now its just a maybe.” But i dont like being alone. I love him. Yea he wasn't the best boyfriend and ny friends say i sound like a battered wife by wanting to go back to him, but he has my heart. I can't even revert to 2016 me who didn't mind sexting randoms (not nudes) just to keep myself occupied. Yea i know i need to focus on me, but its nothing about me i care to focus on aside from maybe getting back into the gym and learning how to drive. Im just annoyed. Im afraid that if he goes months without me, someone may come along for either me or him. Im also afraid that if i turn that someone down, it would be a mistake. But i wanna believe my (ex) boyfriend and i are meant to be. My friends say cut all contact but i can't. I loved talking to him daily for the last 2 years. We even sleep together by the phone. He says we can talk occasionally but thatbwe shouldn't do that “couples” thing and sleep on the phone. Im opposite. I dont have to talk to him throughout the day. I just need him next to me at night (by phone). He keeps saying im seeing this as more of a break then a breakup. And maybe i am. I dont want him to hurt my feelings but by him saying “maybe” we’ll get back together one day, its making me not wanna move on at all. Cause im hanging on to that 50/50 chance. Yea he kinda wasted 2 years of my life with this breakup but i would feel like it wasn't wasted if we got back together this year. Thing is, im only allowing myself to wait til this May. But I don't know what to do. Im not desperate. I know i can get somebody. But thing is, i want him... #FeelFreeToList #HopelessRomantic

This is my first job. I’ve worked at this job for 7 months. I’m a server/runner. There is an employee there that nobody really likes. She is mean and bullies everyone and my boss won’t do anything about it even my general manager. She also shows up 15-30 minutes late every single day. I’ve gotten written up 3 times over being late and I’m constantly late all the time. Boss told me last week this is my last chance and if I’m late one more time I’m getting the boot. He also said I’ve heard from numerous people that you don’t like working here and if that’s the case that’s fine you can quit and no harm done. Maybe this isn’t the right job for you. Anyways I’ve been 15 minutes early every day since. Today out of the blue I got a call from my general manager saying instead of reporting to work tomorrow at 9 to go straight to HR building and speak to this girl and we will go from there. Nobody will get back to me on what it’s about and I called the HR building and they are saying that they aren’t aware of any scheduled meetings tomorrow and to call my general manager. Nobody is answering. I asked my coworker who is friends with my floor manager and boss and she said she hasn’t heard anything going around and it’s been super busy at work all morning (it has there are 3 events going on) and she said fingers crossed you don’t get fired but I don’t know what you would’ve done that’s so awful. I was talking to coworkers about bringing fart spray and spraying it on (coworker nobody likes) stuff and they all laughed but I’m positive nobody would rat on me because it’s just dumb. Yesterday when I was serving a guy spilled his drink all over him and I ran away laughing and couldn’t get my shit together for like 5 minutes and someone else had to clean it up. I also don’t look happy at work but I’m nice to everyone it’s just I have RBF. I don't know.