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So yesterday I spoke to my ex whom I broke up with last week. She initiated the break up. The break up was through faults of my own as I had been dealing with anxiety and depression nearing our breakup. I done something I've never done before I swallowed my pride and decided I needed to ask this girl if she thinks I was worthy another chance. This was extremely hard for me and put me at a great state of complete vulnerability. I confessed my true feelings to her and how much I loved and cared about her. I never realised until yesterday how much I kept my feelings from her. So I'm glad and she is too that I've done this. Even though I agreed to being friends and she said that if we worked things out between us in the future she would like that I still think I needed to tell her now because I may never if had the chance in the future. While we spoke she gave me mixed emotions most were negative to the idea of getting back together but she listened to what I had to say. Saying she isn't just going to get back with me and take my word, which is fair enough. And how she wish I had said all this earlier while still together and not while it's too late. She didn't really elaborate on what she thought would be a good decision so I didn't want to pressure her and said to have a think about it. She wasn't expecting this from me to say the least. She seems fairly happy now since we haven't been together but I'm not completely convinced, so she might not want us to try again. I want her happy that's the main thing. She had said she still has feelings for me but just isn't sure what to do or say. So in this time of letting her think things over what do I do? I don't want to pressure an answer from her but I don't want to be too distant that she thinks everything I said yesterday was I a lie. Do I leave it be till she decides to contact me or give it a few days and just make friendly conversation not bringing up yesterday talk? Of course unless she decides to. Thanks in advance!

Was seeing/dealing with this girl after me and my girlfriend broke up. Me and a bunch of friends from school went down to the cottages along the beach strip during may 24. during my time there I ran into my ex gf and some how ended up taking a picture with her tipsy and unwillingly. The last night me and that girl which I liked for a while took a pic also we were realy into eachother we ended up hooking up as this was taking place my EX came and started to disturb us so my girl got uncomfortable and went back to her cottage. I was realy upset and the next day said goodmorning and bye to that girl and went home. When I got back a few days later I went on Facebook someone posted the photo of me and my ex on my wall the girl. I was dealing with had the picture we took in an album. I deleted the picture with my ex but some how they keep on coming back. I guess this pissed of the girl I was dealing with and she stoped responding to me. After awhile I deleted Facebook because it was to much of a distraction. I lost contact with a lot of my friends on social media. During this span I lost my job over some f***** up SITUATION I started drinking a bit to much... Now 4 years later I'm still thinking about that girl it's ironic that me and her have similar names so everytime someone calls me I think of her. She's a smart girl in university a gogeta. I think she wants to get in contact with me but I don't have any social media and she doesn't ethier. What's should I do my brothers and sisters should I just forget about her... I will post more on this and keep yous updated... you only live ounce you goto make the best out of the worst and be strong to succed in this beautiful but cold world.

If you have been divorced and then later remarried or your ex has remarried, what challenges have you experienced when ex-spouse and new spouse have encountered eachother? How have you dealt with it? What worked and what didn't? What have you done to avoid problems altogether?

How have you dealt with problems between spouse and ex-spouse?