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I have been hooking up with this guy for few months now. Last time meeting him i was with bunch of my friends at a bar. He then suddenly came closer to me and told me he wants to get to know me better.

Mind you.. i do not talk a lot to people i hook up with. Hell, the only thing i know about them are mostly just things they told me. I don't ask questions nor do i talk about myself (i only do when they ask). I like to keep things casual, the less i know and the less they know the better. I did tell him this, i want nothing more than just hookups. Why he now wants to get to know me?

Especially as young adults? I hope not because it's always been a thing. Not every girl and guy will be sexually or romantically attracted to each other. Friends with benefits doesn't apply here because real friends would never even think about hooking up or getting intimate with each other.

As a teenager, most of my friends were girls but around age 17, I started to realize how easy it was to interact with guys. It's nice to have a balance because you can also get their point of views and perspectives on things and vice versa.

I personally only think hypersexual guys will find it difficult to be strictly platonic with women.