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We've known each other since we were 6 and now we're 16. We've both been in relationships before but with other people. He's my best guy friend, and we talk to each other about almost everything. I've been dealing with a lot of family issues recently and he's been by my side, always making sure I'm okay.

The thing about our relationship that can look odd in the eyes of other people is that we're slightly more physical that other guy-girl best friends. We hug a lot, he puts his arm around me a lot, and some take this as flirting. But that's just how we are with our close friends.

I went over to his place today, we Haven't seen each other for over a week. I had never been to his house before just because his parents make wild assumptions when he brings girls home. We started of talking a bit, and then we started to play games on Xbox. After a bit of that, he said we should watch a movie. During the movie we cuddled but for me that wasn't out of the ordinary at all. Then he slowly started to run his fingers through my hair. He kissed my head a couple of times. We would occasionally laugh at funny parts and when I looked up at him he had a look on his face I had never really seen before. I avoided facing him after that because I didn't want to kiss him if he tried.

When I had to leave he kept holding on to me . After a little bit of laughing and struggling, I broke free but he pulled me down onto him. He put his lips on my neck and I panicked so I quickly got up. He didn't seem to notice.

So what I want to know is, does he think of me as more than a friend or is he just horny? He's never done anything more than hug me before today so I'm quite confused.

Opinions and advice please! Thanks!

I started dating this guy recently. We've kissed and been on a date and both really like each other.

This is a bit about him: He's a total geek. He has a few close friends but other than that, he doesn't like any other people in his school. So I guess he's kind of antisocial (except when it comes to his friends). He has very little experience with girls and dating. He easily tells me his weak points (eg, when we're talking about video games, if he cried at some point during the game he tells me) and he says he's very comfortable around me. Also he told me that he has social anxiety disorder. He's in concert band with me so I see him at least once a week.

This is my dating past: I'm also pretty inexperienced with dating, but not as much as he is. I've had one boyfriend before. We didn't get to hang out very often and we didn't text or talk on the phone or anything very often either. When we did communicate electronically, it was because he was horny. Then for two weeks he didn’t even bother to text me once (although I never talked to him either) and then we broke up.

This is my current problem: This new guy hardly ever texts me first. When I do text him, he usually replies straight away which is nice. According to what I’ve read (psychology articles, Cosmopolitan articles, stuff on the Internet, etc) I’m supposed to make him miss me and want me by waiting for him to text me first. But the last time I waited (when I was waiting for my ex, as I said above) it ended badly. So what should I do? I want to text him and it’s not like I’d smother him or anything. I usually start a text conversation with this guy about 3-4 times a week (and we’re pretty much going out). Still it would be nice if he talked to me first more often. Will he lose interest if I always text first? But if I wait and never text first, I’m afraid he’s just not going to bother texting me and lose interest that way.

What should I do? What are your personal experiences with this kind of stuff? Should I do what Cosmo tells me? xD;; What if he never texts me? Thanks!