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im not the kind of person who will date someone or even flirt, string along or initiate convos if i do not like them in that way. i would be honest and tell them like it is in a nice way. so thats the other 2nd thing i wanted to say. there were few guys that i was friends with they ended up having feelings for me, i didn't feel the same way and i know how it feels, its torture. we all wish we found a mutual love. one guy friend im still friends with him and talk to him sometimes but i dont hang out with him anymore because he kept pushing to date me, even asked me to get a condo with him lol, i didn't even date him, it was akward. so if i do hang with him it has to be with a girlfriend of mine. But there was this one guy, i didn't get a good feeling about him at all. he was literally OBSESSED with me. so this guy, kept forcing me to talk to him, and to date him, wants to see whats going on in my life if im dating anyone. this has been going on for like 8 years, so its been very long time and i put up with it for so long. the first 3/4 years i would always respond to him and talk out of respect and not to be mean, during that time he would try to say he likes me etc, gets very jealous when im with other guys and interrupts when im with them, he was creepy because he never smiles really, he looks serious, just one time he threatened to slap me when we were in highschool i guess as a joke but it was so random, he was showing me and lifting his back hand and said ill slap you so hard you will be holding your face for so long. i was so mad i told him i dare you to hit me n see what happens. he is bigger than me. i told him so many times, in a nice way i dont like him like that and how it sucks when people dont feel same way as you do, i told him im going through that too. he knew exactly he never has a chance with me, still he kept pursuing me, forcing me, getting so angry when i dont respond back. so anyways, this year i changed finally completely on him.