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What is your philosophical view point on this topic. Age difference and relationships. I'm currently facing this dilemma. I'm a paramedic. Im 20. I'm on a critical care ambulance 3x a wk and a fulltime student becoming a nurse. I'm "talking " to this guy in my company who's is 15 years older than me. He's turning 35 in a few months. Both of us are paramedics. We both do not have kids. He has a girlfriend, they live together and she is dependent on him but he isn't dependant on her. She lives in his apt etc etc. We talk and flirt and I wanna date him. I'm keeping my distance because of that BUT if they ever break up my big concern is the age difference. We are bboth very smart and mature about almost situation we both had to deal with outside and inside of work and I think we would be a great couple. I just want to see where everyone stands in this. Is a 20 yr old and a 34 years old a drastic age difference?

So it all began at the beginning of this year when i found that he sat in the cafeteria where i sometimes stare out the window, he sits right where i find myself in deep thought starring. We make weird eye contact where it’s like i feel something weird but we've NEVER met! So later that week, my friends and i were in a group walking in the hallway. He and his friends i guess passed us and stopped right in front me. He looked at me and goes "hey babe" in like this cocky way and i was like in my head” umm i think not! It will not be approached by anyone this way and i am NOT your babe!" in reality we walked around them and left him standing there. He caught up to us and walked in front us saying "i told you she was stupid" and i picked my leg up to kick his backpack but my good friend tugged me back and stopped me. Fast forward the next week, another group of my friends were walking to choir (4 of us) and the four of us split going different directions. (They were behind us Again!) He and another of of his friends i assume well the girl i was walking with turned around because she missed her turn. So she left me there alone! Well i said out loud my friend’s names to see if they had already made it. I said out loud "where are my friends?" He replied "were right behind you." Me shaking my head said whatever and kept walking keeping ALL the sassiness inside me! I was almost there when he was like wait shawty come back! “That’s the end of that! Last portion i promise! Bottom line we passed each other on opposite sides of the hallways and I've cauht his eye a few times, caught him licking his lips a few times still make awkward eye contact everywhere! He tends to old my gaze then we both look away have no idea but im kinda wondering if he likes me! Is this just a game or like is it possible that he Might have a crush in me? Please share your opinion!!! i really want some advice on this! Am i over eacting an this could just be a game?