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I'm super curious what is going on ! My crush whom I dated / banged for a few weeks has ghosted - or not! Well read on and you'll see...

He sent me texts every day, met up every week, surprised me with a date which caught me off guard since I assumed it was just sex on his end. We talk deeply, laugh a lot and have insane sexual chemistry.

Then suddenly it was a whole day of silence (which is okay - I get it, and I didn't try to reach out either.) And the next day the text came... "I'm sick, can't meet tomorrow" where I replied "hope you feel better soon" (though I felt not so sure about the situation. You know when you have a gut feeling...)

Facts: he is 25. I'm 30. Don't know if that is important? But there you go. Now read on 

Four days later he texts me in the middle of the day and asks how I'm doing. I don't reply to try to play it cool! Happy he texted! But still guarded since he's been quiet for 4 days. I'm a bit of a instagram freak so I have checked if he still follows me - every day. (Yeah - freaky) But just before answering him, four hours after his text - I check again and boom - he has unfollowed me

okay
what the. F?

Can someone give me insight?

Facts that may help: I have an account where I post one - two pics a day. So not crazy much. But more than other "normal" friends. I try to keep it an interesting feed - good pics with a pretty face and my music.

He on his end posts nada, follows only a few - and half of them are bikini models.

Now that's all y'all ! Shoot ! 

Here is the situation: You have been with your partner for 10 mths. You recently broke up for 3 weeks and have been back together for just 3 weeks also. The reason behind the split was due to your partners unhealthy lifestyle which was affecting the relationship in many ways namely they were being secretive and lying to you to cover up their issue.

Since getting back together your partner has made an active effort to get their life back on track and although it's only time that can help you learn to trust again you have been trying to be encouraging and supportive as well.

However your partner gets upset over something you say and overreacts and he refuses to try and see your point or even take on board how you feel. He then proceeds to sit at the dinner table with his 2 young kids, your young child and you but won't eat anything, instead he chooses to sulk, roll his eyes at you when you ask why he isn't eating and rudely state that he has lost his appetite.

He then once kids are in bed, goes to sit outside to ignore you for hours, you go out after a while to see if he wants to talk and he still refuses to see your point and just argues, raising his voice at you, swearing at you and telling you to fuck off. Bear in mind you don't live together and this is your home, him and his kids were just staying for the weekend.

You walk away because there is no point in continuing the argument. You go to bed, he eventually comes up and grabs his pillow from your bed and goes to sleep with his son on the spare bed instead.

You are so mad that he is acting this way after only being back together for 3 weeks that you decide to send him a text message :

I can't handle your Shitty attitude and I'm not interested in starting 2018 off like this, you ignoring me, shouting at me and telling me to fuck off in my own home so perhaps just go home tomorrow. Go and enjoy your New Years Eve with your kids, I will do the same with my daughter then their will be no further arguments.

I normally wouldn't interfere in my boyfriends parenting of his children. He is 37 and we have been together for 10 months. Yesterday we had been out having a lovely day with his 2 young children and my one. We get home and he parks his car in the garage. His son had fallen asleep and obviously my boyfriend didn't want to wake him up. So he leaves the garage door open. In the meantime I had gone inside to change quickly so I could go to the supermarket. Came back to garage to get into my own car and noticed his son sleeping but not one single door had been left open and not one single window down.

I was in disbelief to be honest and given the circumstances I was quite concerned that his 5 yr old was left without windows down and doors open at least. I pulled my boyfriend up on this immediately and he said I was overreacting and told me to stop lecturing him.

His defense was that the car was in the shade of the garage and that the air conditioner had been on for a good hour before turning the car off at home which meant the car inside would stay cool for a while. It was an extremely hot day, we are in the middle of summer and statistics do say that it doesn't matter if a car has been parked under shade or had had the air conditioner on for a good period of time that all it takes is for 10 minutes for the car to still teach temperatures double to what is outside.

He of course disagreed with proven facts and proceeded to give me the cold shoulder for the rest of the night stating I was wrong for what i said and did... I'm sorry but I am struggling to see how I was wrong in this...