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First off it's just about what you like. Because some people enjoy not having a set plan say for a night out. Where others to not have set plans would make them insane. And vise versa. A plan would an attempt to control them. It's all good we just need to find the one for us. I don't see right or wrong it's more like that person likes things the way I do. I tell people all the time and they think I'm joking but I'm not really. To have a successful relationship all we really need to do is find someone whose neurosis lines up with ours. I mean if someone is a bit chatty at times and just gets going so fast at times and that can reallymake some people uncomfortable. And we all do it from time to time. I don't like judging, by that I mean when someone says things about how other people are... a lot. I don't sign off on that I try to keep out light and say, their just doing the best they can like everyone else. My point being... if you know who you are and what you like it will increase your chance of success greatly. Looks and money and popularity are wonderful things, I hear... but when someone is into things you don't really care about and like you to always be right beside them but you are fiercely independent and are into the art's, literature and dance. And you're not sure what they like because ever since you got married he watches sports at the dinner table. Yelling and talking to the athletes not you. So how would you ever find out if he likes the Ballet? It's an extreme example I admit but I bet after a few years of that and you finally drum up there nerve to just leave him or her. You won't be as worried about what everyone thinks the next time you meet someone who makes you happy. "They have a funny laugh... that would drive me crazy" to which one may respond, "It drives me crazy when you pick at that ingrown hair on your bunions". Sorry, I have to have a little fun with "the process". I's tough, you can't rush it yet the clock moves faster!