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The current social trend , thanks to the media, is to have men with shaved body which is almost as smooth as the girls ( legs included) .
Do you also consider men who keep their body in natural hairy state ( everywhere except pubes) to be unappealing and unattractive?

This is a question for guys too, not just girls.

The example pictures and just there because usually a girl is required to dress more modestly when living with her parents, and when she moves out... she can just wear whatever she wants (with obviously the exception of work and such), so there are no real restrictions.

As a guy, I don't think I'd had this problem that much...

But I live in Florida, and at a certain phase as a teen, I decided to not wear shorts anymore, as I had worn nothing but shorts previously and was reading for a change, and all the cool kids seemed to wear long pants.

And my dad would not fucking accept it. He FORCED me to wear nothing but shorts. So when I got out of college, I made it my goal to not wear shorts AT ALL.

Till I met my girlfriend...

And she likes to go out, jog, go to theme parks, walk all over the place... which in this Florida heat, can only be done in shorts. So I HAD to buy some.

So now, I wear jeans/pants indoor, but wear shorts outdoors when I'm with my girlfriend. I think it's a pretty good way to live. Plus, my girlfriend literally does the same thing.

And she likes it, too... she says she likes to compare her smooth shaved feminine legs to my super hairy rough masculine legs, lol. 😂😂😂

Guy A: He is a guy who shaves everywhere face to toe , once in every 2 weeks.

Guy B : Apart from his face He shaves his torso and privates , keeps his legs/arms naturally very hairy.

Guy C : He just shaves his face and privates , leaves everywhere else natural very hairy.

A general preference amongst women is shaven/smooth torso but surprisingly most of them are absolutely okay and even prefer a man's natural hairiness on his legs/thighs/arms , even if it's very hairy over shaved legs/arms.

Why is this so? Just curious.

Being a guy and that too a very hairy guy I personally have always felt bad about being a guy and hence having lots of body hairs and even facial hair , unlike women.
It sucks. We need to shave face and whole body ( at least I need to shave everywhere) and still our body and face isn't as smooth as women get, naturally.

Unfortunately I am a really very hairy guy. Always hated it as I saw other guys were so less hairy and girls were so smooth.
Never felt confident and comfortable with being beastly hairy.
Always felt self conscious... and got fascinated by female smoothness... to the extent that I felt but jealous of their smooth skin.

Now I use clippers to closely trim whole legs and thighs, leave some forearm hair and shave torso... try to do it as regularly as possible... but still not satisfied since it gets prickly stubbly. Have tried waxing and epilator but was too painful on torso.

Is it too much of hair removal getting borderline effeminate?

Generally average men don't shave/wax/trim their body because they already have normal/decent amount and hence don't need to.
But if a guy is very hairy guy, he obviously needs to do something about it.

If he closely trims his legs and thighs, shaves his torso and trims his arms to about 1 mm length, would this be called metrosxual? Gayish? Effeminate? Over grooming and too much effort?