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I'm a late bloomer so I've never officially dated many people. I met a girl on eharmony. I think this girl is cute and we went out on three dates. She's kind of an introvert. The first date was okay, the second was really good cause she was getting all touchy and the third was a little distant. We don't really have any chemistry but at the same time I kind of don't know what I want and really bad at flirting. I know I want a long term relationship with a nice yet funny girl but this girl is kind of bland. The thing is that I'm an introvert shy guy too so that's why I think I should keep seeing her. I felt the third date went really bad because there were a lot of moments of silence. I know I made some mistakes such as not suggesting to pay for everything but I always tried to be a gentleman. We made plans for her friend's wedding but after having a text session with her 3 days prior she never texted back to a small joke I made. So I decided to wait based on some of my friends advice. The day before the wedding I had to know what was going on so I called her. She didn't respond to my phone call and my message I left on her phone. Now it's a year later and i haven't gone out on any dates but I learned a lot from those dates and from helpful dating guides. Two weeks ago she tried to add me to facebook and sent me a message asking how I'm doing.

What do you guys think I should do?

I've seen her looking at me often. I've seen her act completely opposite how she treats other guys, she'll act very nervous around me as compared to other guys. Its been this way ever since I first met her. She's given me many signs that she has something for me. We don't know each other well, yet I still seem to get her attention often. I told her I liked her (in a note because I've literally never had a chance to talk to her outside of work) and she also had my phone number. She didn't call nor did she acknowledge the note when I saw her again (I know she read it). I asked her a few months ago about her looking at me and she never directly denied looking at me either. When I saw her back at work the first time, she didn't acknowledge what I put in the note, she talked to a guy I know very cheerfully that she has never once talked to at work, and even though she tried to pretend nothing happened, I still saw her looking at me a few times. She isn't a girl who gets much attention from guys, but since I gave her the note I've noticed she has been a hell of a lot more confident in herself (she added a bunch of friends on Facebook and uploaded a bunch of selfies on Instagram and her pages were pretty much dead for the last month). I also noticed that she threw on a lot more makeup than I've ever saw her wear before.