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Okay long story

I’ve known this chick for a little while. We just started getting closed. We decided we didn’t wanna see other people but neither one of us was ready for a relationship.

There is this person she previously dated awhile ago. She broke up with this person after only dating for a few months. They stayed friends. She started dating this other person2 and person2 had a problem with person1. She she completely cut off person1.

After a few years she broke up with person2 and started having a rebound with person1. This is where I came into the picture. I expressed that I don’t care person1 is her friend as long as she can tell me it isn’t like that. She swears it not however person1 admitted to being inlove with her. She keeps saying “it’s not like that for her, they are a good friend”

Person1 does shit relationship shit for her. (Taking her car to get it repaired, stuff like that) she swears she does that for all her friends.

She had a trip planned for a week to go back home and see her family and go to a concert. She made it seem like it was a solo trip. When she actually left, I hit her up because I had a feeling person1 was there. Surprised! Yup she admitted that this person is indeed part of the trip and she gave person1 the ticket while they were rebounding with each other.

I’m uncomfortable with this and I wanna honestly just pull back but another part of me doesn’t know if I am just being in my feelings? Thoughts?

I had that happen, first dinner date, just talked, then at the car held onto me for 40 minutes, wouldn't let go. Couldn't pry her off, tried several times. It got cold out.

What would you have done in that scenario? I was too nice...

Women, would that have constituted sexual and/or emotional abuse? I have to wonder if that was abuse as it is violating my space.

Found out later, she's on meds and divorcing, I was a rebound... she found a sucker.