Search Results: boyfriend is hung up on my past

Summary about this woman:

- she’s in her early 30s and I’m in my early 20s

- we were part of the same group of 6-8 friends

- she started dating a guy of the group, and I other one

- I know for a fact she’s very controlling to the boyfriend who is in love with her (my friend) and extremely demeaning/manipulative. None of my business, I don’t interfere, but It made me not like her.

- she stopped hanging out with my boyfriend after he started dating me (it’s well known in our group she doesn’t like me for some reason Idk)

Now the latest and what made me ask this question, she is starting to try and create problems where there arent:

- asked my mom if she knows my boyfriend and I are moving in together (we are not and it got my conservative mom very worried and to fight with me)

- keeps asking my boyfriend if he really likes me or if I really like him etc, or insisting his family wouldn't like me

- there are a million other little examples of her trying to create arguments between us, basically

Our other friends think she is either jealous of mine her her bf’s past friendship, or she’s into my boyfriend. Well it doesn’t matter.

My question is. We will surely keep meeting as we live nearby and hang out at the same places.

In my place, what would you do?

Hi so I've been struggling with an issue I can't quite figure out. I found out when I got back with my ex boyfriend that he had slept with his old ex. On top of that, I learned he hung out with a female friend and that she had flirted with him. Automatically, I panicked thinking she was another girl he had slept with. I asked my boyfriend if I could meet her, and so when he said yes I reached out to her and she didn't reply and told my boyfriend. I let it go, as I realized my behavior was kind of weird even tho I just wanted to know the truth. My boyfriend kept telling me no they didn't do anything over the next few months, and I was still bringing her up and accusing him on and off. One day I talked to him about it and brought her up again. He asked me if I had gone and asked her if they slept together, and I said no and asked him why he said that. He responded by telling me that I had told him I was going to ask her myself in the past, and so he thought I had and also because I had been bringing her up nonstop. He said that nothing happened, that she didn't tell him I said anything, and said that she would say no if I asked her myself if they had sex. Should I believe any of this?

Me and my ex boyfriend broke up 4 months ago
We still remained friends - we still keep in contact several times every week and hang out every week
he's the one that broke it off because we argued too much and I still have trust issues from my past relationship.
And also he wanted to pursue his dream career and wanted to focus on that more
But yesterday, we went out for lunch and he found out that I have been seeing another guy because he saw my hickey
He was upset about it
He told me that he's hurt that i was seeing another guy and that he really loved me
He said he never went out and made out with another girl after we broke up and still wanted us to work out
He returned all my things when i came over
And he told me that we will not see each other again and won't message me anymore after this and dont want me to contact him again
He told me he's happy that i found someone
And then when he dropped me home, he sent me a long goodbye message and he just blocked me on everything
I still love him though 😔😔

I understand I hurt him but its not like im cheating
But i do feel like a douche right now because of it
And i was never serious with the guy i was seeing anyway

If a guy truly loved me, he would come back right?