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Around the world there are many different types of religions and churches who claim to speak for their particular god, ali, budda etc etc (we will call all them God for purposes of this post) and governments tend to pressure even when they claim to stay out of religion so who is right?

The churches basically tell the people what to believe as a way to control the general population of a area but are they really speaking for god or more what they want to shape society as? For that matter do churches/religions even consider what god planed anymore?

For this post lets discuss god vs church vs government on sex and legal age. There are other examples but this is just one that becomes a hot topic subconsciously.

In years past couples where married in early teens , girls where considered woman once they started to cycle (gods timer) but in modern times people live longer and the plant has a over population issues so churches push no premarital sex and governments enforce legal ages to slow population grow if the government and churches have faith in God then how can they say god is wrong, or do they just claim faith to gain power over the people? They teach us form young ages that certain things are morally wrong for example when you first read a girl becomes a woman when she starts to cycle and legal age many of you probably instantly considered it wrong, illegal, morally deprived and so on because that is what you where told, so then do you think God is morally deprived since he gave girls their cycle at certain ages? (different ages for girls as they are ready) Not that I would be out looking for that but more the fact that the church and governments try to control it with blind faith is disturbing to me.

There are growing number of people who are no longer religious because they no longer have faith in the church's who abused their power and look more for science to find answers

So I guess the real question is which one is right an all powerfully

Throughout my life there have been numerous occasions where I'd hear about some suicide, whether on the News, from someone I know in my town, or on the internet. And I've noticed a rather disturbing trend. First of all, most suicides I've known of were due to either loneliness, relationship issues, or a breakup. The only two exceptions I've seen are someone killing themselves after committing murder, and someone killing themselves because they had a stroke and could not stand life anymore. But anyway, onto the main topic of this question..

Whenever a girl killed herself, everyone felt sorry for her, and was quick to blame her boyfriend, father, or some other man for her death. One teenage girl in a town not far away from here set herself on fire because a boy broke up with her, and basically everyone had a big pity party for her, while talking about how horrible her boyfriend is.

However, when the genders swap roles, and a man kills himself because of a woman, he is vilified, and portrayed as some kind of psychopath. Why? To make the woman feel better? No one ever questions exactly how much bullshit these women gave these men to make them kill themselves. My friend's ex-girlfriend got with another guy after she left him, and after a few weeks that guy blew his brains out. I know from experience she was a physically abusive and mentally unstable person. Yet I'm sure anyone who heard about that incident would have assured her it wasn't her fault.

Anyway, I am sick of this mentality that women are always the victims, and men are always the oppressors. Even when a woman drives a man past the brink of sanity, and he shoots or hangs himself, she's still the victim somehow. I've seen so many women abuse kids and grown men in my life. I've seen men be abusive to kids and women too, of course, but the difference is those men were ostracized by society, and/or punished. Women on the other hand seem to be getting a free pass to abuse people. And it needs to stop.