Search Results: fear of commitment

Boyfriend with commitments issues?

Anonymous

(30-35)

How can I stop having a fear of commitment I have with friend and dating?

I have never been the type to like familiarity with people and I've lived in the same relative area my whole life and i hate familiar faces. I change hangouts and meet new groups then leave the group when I feel I'm...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is fear of commitment ever real?

If a person possesses some/all of these traits is it more likely? -in a dark, unstable place right now -acts as though he wants attention/approval, then pushes me away after intimacy -traumatic/abusive childhood...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why Being Hard to Get is a GOOD THING: A Detailed Look into the Most Controversial Dating Tactic

Captain of #TeamRJ, reporting in! Ready to rumble in G@G’s #BATTLEROYALE! Get ready everybody, it’s already getting messy. Keep an eye out for me on your mytakes fellow competitors, because your girl is going to be...

RJGraveyTrain

Influencer Age: 32

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Flirting

How do you get over commitment phobia and fear of dating? Is fear of dating someone a sign of them being bad for you?

I'm a total commitment phobe, and I've had such bad experience going on dates and hitting on guys that I've literally stopped going on dates and flirting with men. But I started crushing on a guy that I am acquainted...

aamina_m

Xper 6 Age: 42

Date said he's unsure?

The guy im dating said h doesn't want to break up but because we live 50 miles away he doesn't see things getting any easier (its really hard for us to meet up). He said he can't think or knows what he wants he tells me...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why I've Been Single Forever

I'm 18 years old and single, and have been for 18 years. Whether it be my choice, someone else's or the universe. Overtime, I've begun to wonder why this is. Is it me? Was it them? What could I have done? What can I do?...

amarahorrorstory

Yoda Age: 28

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I'm terrified of commitment?

My ex boyfriend (Sam) and I dated for six months before breaking up recently. I have a few very authentic, very personal reasons to believe that things may work out for us now. Sam and I have been hanging out a lot...

alex_12234

Xper 4 Age: 29

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What is your True Fear?

mine Your Result: Being Alone 78% While you may act like you don't care on the outside, on the inside your biggest fear is being alone. You can be quite shy and reserved. You feel like a lot of times people don't really...

soulbabe

Guru Age: 26

What might happen when a guy who genuinely has a fear of commitment/intimacy has sex with a girl who he really likes, but is not his girlfriend?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why do I always feel weird after I find out a girl likes me, or there might be some kind of attraction?

Ever since junior year of high school and before that, I never really had many choices. I never even flirted with a girl until high school. I was very insecure in middle school and into high school, probably because I was...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Worried about him not planning enough, am I overreacting?

decided to try online dating, it's worked for many of my friends. All my past relationships would move really fast-immediately within two weeks seeing each other all the time and then they would crash and burn because...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How can I tell if a guy has a fear of intimacy/abandonment/commitment if he doesn't directly tell me?

Anonymous

(25-29)

How can you get into a relationship with someone who has a fear of intimacy/abandonment/commitment?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do you think it's possible to be interested in dating (being in a relationship with) someone and yet still be afraid of intimacy/commitment?

Just now I answered a question about how whether a girl should wait for a guy to "change his mind on being afraid of intimacy and commitment", but I feel like in reality if he truly cared about her then it wouldn't be a...

Mesonfielde

Influencer Age: 34

Just now I answered a question about how whether a girl should wait for a guy to "change his mind on being afraid of intimacy and commitment", but I feel like in reality if he truly

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If a straight guy has fear of commitment from having an emotionally abusive parent, does it make a difference if this parent is the dad vs. the mom?

For example, would it make it harder for him to trust girls and start relationships if the mom was the emotionally abusive parent (because she is female), or could an emotionally abusive father have the same effect?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is this fear of commitment, depression, selfishness, laziness, or a combination?

He says that he really likes me, and I do believe him. It seems he's really comfortable around me and is also physically attracted. But, his parents don't have a solid relationship, and didn't for most of his life. His...

Anonymous

(25-29)