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Right, simply put I used to be really close friends with this person back in college, and when we finished college we kept in touch on FB, but that summer we did not meet up once like we use to in college because they were too busy. I left town for a uni a long way away and we still kept in touch, and when I came back for winter, I asked if they wanted to catch up in person, but they were too busy again. I tried again to arrange a meet up at Easter, but they too busy again. I asked if this was their way of saying they don't want to hang out but they insisted they do, but they were too busy. Let me clarify, when I say meet up, I only mean getting lunch or seeing a movie of something together, nothing so demanding once every 3 months or so. I'm back home for the summer and was wondering should I even bother asking if they want to hang out since the answer will be more than likely the same as before and at this point I just feel like an optional friend (They do message me from time to time first and remember occasions like my Birthday, but still...).

- She wants to meet up with me even when she’s unwell although she’ll try to hide it.
- she likes to dress smart when she sees me - she’s normally very casual (although when I said to her “how long have you had that, it’s quite smart - she started saying “oh I only wore it because it’s warm” then stopped wearing it in future when she saw me)
- She messages me random things frequently.
- She hides the fact we always hang out together (almost weekly) from mutual friends & also makes sure to not get too close to me when with mutual friends
- She moves away from me if I get too close ever since I told her I only see her as a friend after I said her best friend implied she likes me. In response to that she got angry and said “i don’t know why she said that when she knows I’m not interested in dating. I’m really mad at her.”
- If we miss a week of meeting she says “it was weird not meeting this week after getting used to it” with a laughing emoji.
- we sometimes miss meets of hobby group we met in or parts of mutual friends birthdays to do something together alone.
- She responds negatively when I call her mate saying “did you mean to send me this? Only guys call each other mate.”
- If I look sad she mentions it and tries to figure out why for example. And if she thinks it’s her fault, she’ll be really apologetic about it.
- She’s happy when I see her or when I tell her I’m going to something she’s going to.
- she laughs about it always being just us 2 going somewhere together
- We are going on holiday together (booked 7 months in advance) after she suggested one.
- She feels bad about always being later than me, making me wait, when we meet up even if she’s on time.

- She wants to meet up with me even when she’s unwell although she’ll try to hide it. She always wants to meet up.
- she likes to dress smart when she sees me - she’s normally very casual (although when I said to her “how long have you had that, it’s quite smart - she started saying “oh I only wore it because it’s warm” then stopped wearing it in future when she saw me)
- She always messages me.
- She hides the fact we always hang out together (almost weekly) from mutual friends & also makes sure to not get toon close to me when with mutual friends
- She moves away from me if I get too close ever since I told her I only see her as a friend after I said her best friend implied she likes me. In response to that she got angry and said “i don’t know why she said that when she knows I’m not interested in dating. I’m really mad at her.”
- She doesn’t see anyone else as often alone. If we miss a week she says “it was weird not meeting this week after getting used to it” with a laughing emoji.
- we sometimes miss meets of hobby group we met in or parts of mutual friends birthdays to do something together alone.
- She responds negatively when I call her mate saying “did you mean to send me this? Only guys call each other mate.”
- She’s sensitive to my emotions. If I look sad she mentions it and tries to figure out why for example. And if she thinks it’s her fault, she’ll be really apologetic about it.
- She’s happy when I see her or when I tell her I’m going to something she’s going to.
- she laughs about it always being just us 2 going somewhere together
- We are going on holiday together (booked 7 months in advance) after she suggested one.
- if I don’t see her for a while, she’ll message without fail.
- She’s a low maintenance girl but despite becoming close friends, I feel she puts in effort with me to present herself well although she’ll never admit it.
- She’s fine being touched on the hand, arm, back.