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Boy meets girl. Boy fucks up. Then girl fucks up. What a mess.
It was my first year at highschool where I fell in love with this girl. She was the definition of my dream girl (I would insert a list of qualities, but it would maxed out the character limit). However, I didn't realize what those feeling meant at the time. She made me feel special yet no one told me that's what love really felt like. At the time I was stupid, ignored these feelings, and chased after what society told me was beautiful. She showed interest in me, yet I ignored it.
Then junior prom came. I realize what I had been lookngi for was her (and I felt stupid). I began to talk to her more often and she even showed interest and the future seemed bright. Then a fucking truck came and rammed me. That was a metaphor for someone asked her out first and she said yes. Though still hopeful, I monitored their progress. I continued to talked to her and tried to asked her out. She turned me down. The hurtful part was that she used the things I love her the most against me and I could never pull the trigger on that. I was deeply hurt. I notice they dated a lot after that and I just wished the best for her.
At the start of senior year, the guy seemed extremely upset and started giving me the dirty look ever since. Then she started showing insterest in me again so I took the chance. I started talking to her again. However I had little time. There was a time where I dropped of the radar because I was too busy. Then she went out to lunch with him couple of times. I was deeply hurt AGAIN. After I got over her, she began to flirt with me again and the guy keeps staring. I ignored her first as I was confused.
WHAT TO DO?
I don't believe in fate, but I feel like our timing is the worse. But I guess that's one thing we have in common. We only had one class together ever. Though we're on the same sport's team we go to practice diferent days.
We're both shy.
They dated for a month.

I think anyone who tells someone else to kill themselves are psycho since they don't care about that person taking their own life. I just messaged her asking her if she is mean, and she responded saying wtf. I told her I asked her, because many women are mean on the site. And we went back and forth and even though I was not conversating well with good explanation and she thought that was weird, I was never perverted or mean to her. I later on noticed how she posted that she wants a good guy to mention to her and she is tired of many jerks messaging her. I messaged her saying not all guys are the same. She didn't know what I was talking about, and I told her I was talking about her post. Even though later on I made it clear that she was talking about her post she still thought I was strange and she said''I never said I was interested in you.''You are right, I don't know why an ugly guy like me bothered messaging you.'' She then said''No, it is just that you are strange and you are not my type.'' ''I then said, I know I am not your type, that is why I mentioned I shouldn't have messaged you since I am ugly, not my type=ugly.'' She then responded saying,''Hahaha, yeah bye.'' I then responded saying''By you just laughing at someone talking about their ugliness, proves how mean you are. Before I didn't consider you mean but your last message proved that you are mean since you laughed when I mentioned about me being ugly. The difference between me and you is that I NEVER laugh when it comes to someones looks since I am not a messed up human being. I hope you change your ways or else you would be miserable and surrounding yourself with miserable people. Bye.'' She then responded saying''Wow you have a mental issue.''do you need the number for the hospital?'' I then responded saying ''How do I have mental issues if I am explaining that you are a bitch for laughing when I was talking about me being ugly?''She then responded saying''Lol ok'' I then responded saying''Unless you change your horrible personality many guys (guys that are not decent) would use you for sex.. Well anyways, good bye bitch. Thanks for showing your true colors to me, cause I don't want to waste my time talking to a messed up immature bitch. Goodbye.'' Then she responded with''Bye your ugly go kill yourself'' and an image of a cartoon of a guy waving.

So I just got Friendzone, and it sucks. The thing about Friendzone is basically a reality slap across your face, saying you are not meeting my level of sexual interest, or otherwise, she is just scared to break the friendship.

It is a strong concern for me how Friendzone is becoming a term of rejection, a horrible rejection, giving this slight hope to the person, not realizing what could bring that person to so much struggle with this sketchy hope. Why people can't be Real? Just say it. Break the friendship cuz sometimes you have to realize how awful frienzoning is, in terms of how people having materialistic belief on their future boyfriend/girlfriend, when the person right in front of you is showing the realest and truthful love. People should feel some sort of guilt when they Friendzone, cuz basically they look for interest, not commitment. And I understand it is a consequence for being a human, our mere body is possessed with material and spiritual. But people should realize, if they can't deal with the materialistic problem they have, then don't Friendzone them, because they have to understand that they are not worth to be a friend of her/his, after all being a friend and knowing who the person is. Knowing him/her enough to accept him/her as a friend, but then you Friendzone him/her.

I might be just frustrated for being Friendzoned, but I think I have a point in here. So guys, what do you guys think? When you Friendzone a person, do you have to live up with the consequence, for happening it? And how will you deal with it when you Friendzone them?