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I've been dating this guy for a couple of months now. He lives about 45 minutes away. We see each other on Saturday's because that's our only day off from work and school. He fell hard for me and I did too. I fell for him the third week of being together. I actually want a future with this guy. I want us to get our own place, get married and have kids. After talking to him he feels the same way and wants the same thing. :) I am genuinely happy! He treats me like a queen, gives me endless affection (I do the same for him), he doesn't keep me guessing (he tells me how he feels), he's sweet, kind, funny and he is there for me. The last time that he came over, we took pictures through Snapchat. I glanced over and saw that majority of messages in his Snapchat were from girls. He told me not to worry about it because they are just his friends and majority of his friends are girls. Of course I wasn't mad, because majority of guys are my friends. Since then I've been feeling different, I've been feeling really distant from him. I feel like he's going to hurt me by leaving me, finding someone else, or just Breaking up with me because of the distance even though it's not that far. At the same time I still want a future with him and I still have strong feelings for him. I know it's not infatuation because I would've gotten over that. I legit want a real future with this guy. Not some fantasy relationship.

So am I losing feelings for him? Am I being insecure and too guarded? Help!

Since day one we liked each other it's been a couple of weeks. We still do. We've talked for hours on Facetime and are planning to meet up next weekend. Our feelings are strong for each other and we are both Christians... The weird thing is he is EVERYTHING that I want in a man. I've prayed so long to find a guy like him and he came along without me expecting it. My feelings are growing for him fast as it is for him. I'm a Christian and I know it's important to guard your heart but did God finally send me the one? The connection I feel is not infatuation (I know what that feels like and this is not it) it feels right. It feels like this is something I've waited for for a long time. Is this normal?

I read on a scientific book about non verbal language that staring at someone’s eyes intensely and deeply for a prolonged time is a sign of love.

Is it so in your experience? I’m not talking about infatuation or attraction, but about REAL LOVE.

Have you ever noticed that if you are truly in love with someone the way you interlock your gaze is “more intense”and more prolonged?