Search Results: let him down gently

My guy friend wanting to be more than friends?

i love this guy friend of mine as a brother, but I have a feeling he might like me more than just a friend. some weeks ago we were standing facing each other, talking and I realized that he was holding my hand, I haven't...

she-elf

Xper 5 Age: 38

In a crap situation. Any advice greatfull.

So there was this guy at work that I got on really well with. We used to chat and be a little flirty with each other. There was also a lot of eye contact between us which got really intense at one point. Anyway as he is a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Does he like me or is he trying to let me down gently?

I met this guy a while back we spent most of our time in a club kissing an he took my number, we text for a while and then out of the blue he stopped replying. So I decided to leave him alone and forget about it, then a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

Does she feel guilty?

We've been friends with this girl for 7 months now.She had a huge crush on me last summer but I kinda messed up.She is in a rebound relationship since.Anyway there were cases in the past 2 months where we could have...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How do I make my best friend fall in love with me!?

Hi, I'm a 23 year old female from the UK. I'm best friends with a man, let's call him Walt. Walt and I met a few years ago through friends and for the last 2 years we have been inseparable. We even live together! We get...

SillyHank

Xper 5 Age: 36

Am I wrong to be pissed off that he gave me signals that he liked me?

I won't go into the ins and outs but I have liked a guy for some time and I recently told him and asked what he thought of it and he basically let me down gently by sayin he has a girlfriend (which I know he doesn't)....

Anonymous

(36-45)

How to let this guy down gently?

I dated this guy for about 6 months. He's 19 and I'm 22. I noticed about 4 months in that it wasn't going to work out and I voiced it to him often. We broke up a few times in the next 2 months and finally I decided that I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Can I get a guy's opinion please?

OK so we met in October of 2010 k? Oh and by the ways, we met at someone's house, but we go to the same church. I didn't keep track of how many times he's complimented me, the compliments are very FAR in between...like in...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

I am in love with two girls. Do not judge!

I am a great guy don't get me wrong but my whole life has been hard. My mother can be very mean to me and my ex girlfriend treated me like sh*t. That is when I meet Sky. Sky was so sweet, and nice to me, that we became...

confuseddude1

Xper 5 Age: 33

How do break up with someone I'm not even going out with?!

I agreed to got out with a guy from my college class this week, I didn't really think about it, I said yes more to be nice (which I feel like a bitch for!) but this guy won't stop texting me, complimenting me all the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Are guys more likely to make up excuses to avoid talking to an ex or just tell them flat out?

I know a lot of guys don't want to directly confront a girl because they prefer to let her down gently and hope that she gets the hint. But for an ex, if you really don't want to talk to her anymore, are guys more likely...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Men, and How to Avoid the Dreaded Friend Zone

The reason why guys get “friend zoned” is because they give way too much. There is no challenge in the relationship. Women like men who are masculine---not necessarily Alpha males, but are strong and independent---the...

MadameGrimaldi

Xper 3 Age: 38

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Is this leading him on, and what do I do? I'm really bad at male-female interaction...

Basically, I'm in a foreign country at the moment, learning the local language (China), and I met this local guy (as a language partner). I'll just quickly sum up what's happened: - Met up with him, ate dinner...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Are people who want a "love at first sight" experience being unrealistic; shouldn't they get to know someone?

So many men that I have gone out with in the past (blind dates) ceased communication after one date and I learned later that it was because they "just didn't feel the magic". I feel that it takes more than one date to get...

littlesugar

Xper 5 Age: 48

Dating

Great first date...now what?

Ugh, story of my life. I went on a great date last night. The gentleman and I met online and I suggested we have drinks. The guy was nice and funny and we pretty much hung out for 5 hours. But, of course I'm over...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Let him down gently?

There's this guy in one of my classes that is nice, but kinda weird and not really my type, but he is always flirting with me and trying to impress me. And he always walks me back to my dorm after class. I am just...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Does she like me or just want to be polite?

There is this girl I know from work who, one day, managed to track me down and showed up in my doorstep with a champagne in one hand and wore a trench coat with nothing underneath. After I let her in, she went ahead and...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Girl's Behavior

Should I text this guy I've known for a while but haven't kept in contact with for months?

Yeah I see this question a lot on this site, but I just want to know if it seems like a good idea to text this guy who I had feelings for, especially after meeting him for the first time (we texted a few times before...

Anonymous

(30-35)