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So my relationship with my boyfriend has been having ups and downs. We’ve been together for more than 2 years now and we’ve been having a lot of problems that can’t be fixed. He is a very forgiving guy and an honest one, he’s not thise type of guys that would cheat or do anything bad. Most of the problems has to do with me being upset all the time for stupid reasons and disrespecting him sometimes. (Ex; not liking his family, interrupting him, showing signs of clinging, and Me getting upset all the time when he mentions his 4 year old half-brother who hasent done anything to me. He dosent like the fact that i hate his family because he has no full siblings and both his mom and dad have kids from different people) he has 5 other half siblings with different parents) So he decided (oct 16) that he has had enough of giving me chances and WE NEED A BREAK. I was the one who brought up going on a break instead of him having to break up with me. So he finally decided that were going on a break for real this time. He Decided on a 3 week break and tolled me that this break is my last chance he is giving me to fix my issues. He decided on 3 weeks of no talking and seeing eachother and after the break (nov 7) will be the deciding factor if we will continue our relationship. He is giving me this time to think about the problems and to see if this will prove that i will change and show him that i will learn to accept his family and show more respect to him. I feel like it’s forever but he said that it’s not a long break and it will be beneficial for us if we decide to continue our relation and save our future in the very long run. I’m thinking this will sorta help us, but not communicating during this break is making me very sad. He said he will contact me on the ending date but I don't know what he will decide on. I really miss talking to him rn. What do you think?

So, I have a crush on a guy that is in one of my classes in college. He is a grade older than me and tends to be the "joker" of the class. He will constantly try to make the professor laugh with "stupid" answers and in total make the whole class laugh. He isn't stupid or anything, he just likes that type of attention. So, I started "liking" him when we had to be put into groups for an essay peer review. It wasn't just me and him though, it was me, a girl, him, and another guy. So, the entire time he barely talked to me, and just talked (flirted) with the girl and the guy. He was basically ignoring me for no reason even though I barely knew him and never even talked to him. While he was talking with the girl (who sits next to me), he seemed nervous (he was fidgety and looked uncomfortable). My first thought was that he was nervous around the girl he was talking to, but if he was nervous around her, why would ignore me completely? I thought he was attractive before this incident but this situation made me a little confused.
So other than that incident, he never really seemed SUPER into me or was showing me all the signs. There have been a couple of times where we locked eyes with each other for a few seconds. When we do look at each other, he never looks away nervously (like a shy guy). He often keeps the eye contact. In class he does sit diagonally from me so, he often tries to position himself closer to me. He barely talks to me in class (ignores me) and he sometimes just asks the girl next to me random questions like "what was the homework?" or "did he grade that test?" There have been times where I could see him glance at me while looking in my direction. Outside of class, I barely see him or talk to him (bad sign probably lol). He does this weird thing where the minute that the professor says bye to us, he runs out the door.

When my friend's younger cousin was 10 years old, he was accidentally caught by his father bullying someone else with his Friends.

The father is the old-fashioned school type and he got the paddle and was made to apologize to the other kid in front of his friends.

However, during his mid teens he no longer wanted to be the guy's friend. He admitted to only going along with it, never liking him and pretending to be his friend all that time out of fear of getting caught and punished by his father again. Sure, he didn't bully again but he got sneaky in other things.