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Me and my ex boyfriend broke up 4 months ago (he ended it because we fight too much and he thinks im too demanding)
But we are still "friends" since he still contacts me every week (messages and calls me) and wants to hang out every week - he's always the one initiating everything
I still love my ex boyfriend
Last night my ex boyfriend called me and I exploded.

This was our conversation:
Me - i need to ask you questions, but first im gonna be honest, i feel awkward just us being friends, tell me the truth, do you see us in the future or you dont think we are right for each other?
Him - its not that, i really do want to be with you but the reason why i broke it off is because you are just too demanding, im pursuing my career as a police and im really serious about it so i can't give you full attention and a lot of time, i wish i could be with you, i really do but i just need time to do this on my own
Me - i just dont want to be played around or you putting me in the back burner. I rather move on and find someone else
Him - playing you around? Are you serious? How am i playing you around? Im not seeing other girls. Im not talking to other girls. Im focusing on myself. I've been single for a while now and if i wanted to flirt with other girls, I would have. But im not. Why do u think i message you and call you often? Why do u think i wanna hang out with you? Seriously, you always doubt me. You give up on me easily too.
Me - what if you find someone better? What if u meet someone in the police academy?
Him - omg no. If im in a commited relationship, i would not do that. And plus im not there to meet girls. You just dont understand me. Give me a chance to do finish this please. If I've already completed this, I would have never left you. You know what? Lets just meet in person this weekend and talk about it okay? Its better to talk about it when we see each other. Dont think about it too much for now okay?

Why does he want to talk bout this in person rather than just telling me on phone?

Me and my ex boyfriend broke up 4 months ago (he ended it because we fight too much and he thinks im too demanding)
But we are still "friends" since he still contacts me every week (messages and calls me) and wants to hang out every week
But I still love my ex boyfriend
So my ex boyfriend called me last night and I exploded.

This was our conversation:
Me - i need to ask you questions, but first im gonna be honest, i feel awkward just us being friends, tell me the truth, do you see us in the future or you dont think we are right for each other?
Him - its not that, i really do want to be with you but the reason why i broke it off is because you are just too demanding, im pursuing my career as a police and im really serious about it so i can't give you full attention and a lot of time, i wish i could be with you, i really do but i just need time to do this on my own
Me - i just dont want to be played around or you putting me in the back burner. I rather move on and find someone else
Him - playing you around? Are you serious? How am i playing you around? Im not seeing other girls. Im not talking to other girls. Im focusing on myself. I've been single for a while now and if i wanted to flirt with other girls, I would have. But im not. Why do u think i message you and call you often? Why do u think i wanna hang out with you? Seriously, you always doubt me. You give up on me easily too.
Me - what if you find someone better? What if u meet someone in the police academy?
Him - omg no. If im in a commited relationship, i would not do that. And plus im not there to meet girls. You just dont understand me. Give me a chance to do finish this please. If I've already completed this, I would have never left you. You know what? Lets just meet in person this weekend and talk about it okay? Its better to talk about it when we see each other. Dont think about it too much for now

Why does he want to talk bout this in person?

Hi all, so I just need some thoughts on a potential relationship.

I had a crush on a guy for a while and last night we wound up at sheetz (just me and him) and we talked for about two hours. About anything and everything, throughout the conversation he started moving my hair out of my face and tucking it behind my ears, we were holding hands, and hard core flirting. So I just sorta kissed him, and he was okay with it. We went back to my place and, yes had sex. Lots of sex.. anyways he spent the night and left this morning. During the time he was with me he asked me a lot of questions about what I think about long term relationships and why I didn't believe in love (that is a different story) and we shared really personal stories and he has been through some really similar experiences. But I was really honest about me liking him and letting him that is sex is all that we can have (we are graduating) I'll take it but if we can have more, I want more. He said he liked me to, but he didn't know what he wanted and he wasn't sure if he was into a long distance kind of things. He said.. wait for it... 'he only wanted to focus on tonight.' Anyways so thoughts on that situation would be great!

In addition, with that I want to text him. How soon is to soon? Obviously not today but is tomorrow okay?

my boyfriend and I got back together after we had thought we were splitting up for good. I looked at his phone and saw that he had been talking to a girl he's known for about 8 years, who is from a different state but like him, moved to LA. They had gone to school together etc. A lot of the texts were about meeting up to hang out, but on her end it was pretty flirty. She was asking him questions like if he wanted to have a slumber party & he didn't say yes or no but said something about talking to her theater friends.

not long after she was asking again, but instead calling it a "pajama party." He actually said yes to this, but told me when I let him know I had seen it that no sleepover ever took place and that they didn't sleep together. The last message I saw from their conversation, he was saying he was on his way to her but other than the message from her asking there was no more talk about anything overnight. He actually never flirted just agreed to one thing she said. I think it was to be nice I don't know. What do you think? When I asked him if he thought she was pretty he said he thought she was modest..

she also asked him if he thoufgt she was pretty