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So the first guy, (Cade) he's been my best friend for years. We even dated briefly early on, it lasted aweek and we never kissed because I was too shy to even look at him and he thought I didn't want him to make a move. After that we didn't speak for a year. Now, years later we're closer than ever we say things like "I can't imagine who I'd be with out you" and "You're amazing" constantly. Well, recently I've developed feelings for one of his closest friends. (Truman) One night I decided I'd tell Cade about my feelings for Truman and he asked if I wanted to know what happened when Truman drove him home after we had all hung out. He tells me that the two of the rated me and Truman asked Cade if he had feelings for me. Truman &Cade both agreed that I'm a 9 and Cade told him that he has feeling for me. Here's the thing Cade has a girlfriend, but despite this he and I have been having really romantic conversations as of late. He even asked if we could strike a deal: that if I still haven't had my first kiss by senior year & he's single that we would do what he's always regretted not doing all those years ago. But he's also being my wingman on the Truman front, given me advice and given me the courage to talk to him. He's a lot like Cade, but he's also intellectually stimulating and mature. We've been texting & it's like we already know each other, he's been moving to sit with me in class and I've caught him looking up at me at random when he's across the room -usually he's smiling... I think I know what's best here, but I just want some confirmation from an outside party. To be clear though, I'm not a floosey of a teenager. Truman is the first actual crush I've had in years and Cade, well I buried those feelings a long time ago and now they are gnawing at me. I'd apprechiate some input.

Before I say anything else: I don't believe that astrology has EVERYTHING to do with love or personalities, but I do believe they are a good base to start from.

He is an Aries, I am an Aquarius.

I really need some advice on this. Please be honest and please read through all of this.

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I have been single for about a year now, and have had no interest in finding someone to 'fill the void' as one might say it. I was quite content being single.

That is... until this guy came along. Now he has me questioning whether or not I'd like to let him win me over, or just tell him that I have no interest. I won't lie, I never gave off the vibes of "I'm interested". I just tend to be friendly to everyone, so it was no different with this guy.

His interest in me couldn't have been any more obvious. How so? He came into class one day with a beautiful, fully bloomed tulip. Apparently, he had picked it from his garden. When he handed it to me, he told me that he had seen the flower earlier and that it had reminded him of me, but that my beauty was unmatched by anything he had ever seen before. I was shocked to say the least--a little confused as well, but flattered beyond words. I accepted his gift. Well, after multiple declines to go out on a date with him, he wore me down enough to agree to one. To be honest, it wasn't half bad.

He opened doors for me, pulled out (and pushed in) chairs for me, and slow danced with me. I won't lie--he is like a transplant from the Shakespearian times. He is very, VERY traditional. His good-bye to me? A kneel on the ground and a kiss on the hand.

He is also one of the smartest people I've ever met. He is fluent, and self taught, in 5 different languages. It takes him less than 2 months to learn a new language. It's crazy!

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I am confused. I don't know what my feelings are for him yet. Should I give him more chances? Should I not?