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I met this guy about 5 years ago. We met as co workers, became friends, at first because we were both dealing with the same issues in our lives. After, we found we connected, had similar interests and it progressed into a very close friendship. I was in an abusive relationship, and as the violence got continually worse, i turned to him more and more for comfort. During this time, he developed feelings for me. Looking back, im not so sure i felt the same... lets just say my mind was clouded... and i felt safe with him... but i believed i was starting to catch feelings at the time. I do know for a fact i could trust him, he went to great lengths to ensure my happiness and well being, to the point of allowing himself to go without things he needed to meet my needs. We fell off after he literally attacked my then partner one day when he witnessed the abuse. I stayed with my abuser, and my friend became desperate... to the point of acting crazy, constant calls, showing up at all hours proclaiming his love, even trying to stop me from leaving his house at times. I cut him off and didn't speak to him for over a year. I finally left my abusive partner four months ago and relocated. Im single and trying to work on my life. I recently got back in touch with my friend on Facebook. We talked for a couple months, and forgetting or minimizing his past clingy behaviors, agreed to let him come visit me. He stayed for a week. I've repeatedly told him im not ready for a relationship and he claimed to understand, saying trust issues are understandable and he would wait as long as it took, still loves me, etc.. however. i do have feelings for him, but he began talking of spending forever with me, making me feel pressured. I also found out he slept with someone after claiming he would wait for me.. citing his own trust issues. He is too emotional and insecure.. saying he can't live without me, even pushing to live together! so I made him leave. What do i do now?