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My bf and i have been dating for 10 months and live together. He was the one that asked me to move in 8 months ago. We have our ups and downs and fight more then other couples dating for this long I'm sure because I have trust issues and I'm insecure. Sometimes I think he doesn't really wanna be with me or cheating on me. Here are the reasons.
1.he can be a jerk when we are out in public like ignore me or not really pay much attention to me
2.He checks out other girls but says I just think it Cuz I don't trust him. (it's not an obvious check out but if i see a girl walk by i will sometimes look at him)
3. He says he wants to get married and have a kid with me.someday. he finishes inside of me and says we will get married within 5 years. But sometimes I don't know if i should believe that by the way he treats me somedays
4. Couple weeks ago he was all loving and even during sex he would ask what position I liked better and he's never asked before. So kinda made me think he was cheating. Then would say I love u more then normal and just being really sweet then the next weeks he was kinda being a jerk again
5. He has talked shit to his friends before say in i smell. Which if i did that bad I don't know why he would stay with me.
6. He has told me I suck in bed and I asked why is he with me then and he said because he loves me and it isn't just all about sex.
7. I've mentioned taking a break before Cuz I get sick of how he is sometimes but he always tells me he doesn't want too and he has even mentioned we go to counseling to help our relationship.
8. He can be a flirt when he's drinking which I hate
9. Everytime I try n talk to him about our relationship he never likes to talk about it prob Cuz I bring it up almost every night. Only Cuz we never have a good talk about it. And he will just tell me to grow up and start trusting him.
Like I said I have trust issues and have been hurt in the past that's why I think like this.

So I snapchat this guy sometimes and he flirts aaaaalll the time, and of coarse I do too. Anyways he tells me about how much sex he gets at his home town and stuff like that, idkwhy and so I didn't reply for 5 mins and then he tells me he wants to cuddle me and it sucks cuz I'm not with him. I played it off and said I'm sure there are plenty of girls that will cuddle you there. And he said "I don't want them to cuddle me. I want you too." I said " you sure about that?" And he said "positive." He asked me out a couple of months ago but I didn't know him at the time and turned him down. His birthday is coming up and he invited me but I don't know what to do or how to act around him haha. Any thoughts? :)

As known, in a relationship there are certain individuals that use sex as a weapon against the opposite gender. I've heard on talk shows about how some got manipulated into giving their partners his/her proof of love. Which one sucks the most?

1) Man pressuring his girlfriend into sex (she might be a virgin or might not) and saying something like ''If you love me, you would do it with me''

2) Woman withholds sex and wants it or it can be a virgin girl purposely using that as a way to get a man to marry her. Then she tells him ''If you love me, you would wait for me.''

So, I have just recent got out of a relationship, but the guy was still talking to me, we still acted like a couple, had sex and so on. However, I felt really sh*tty for doing this because I was just scared to be alone.

However, while we were dating, we would hang out with my guy best friend, who I have liked for about 3 years. During our relationship, I began to like my guy best friend again. This was part of the reason I broke up with my ex-boyfriend. Anyways, they became friends, but my guy friend never really connected as much. While they were hanging out, my boyfriend clearly told him that I was off limits and if he ever kissed me, he would punch him in the face.

So, at this point, I was SO sick of my boyfriend being controlling and possessive. I went to go hang out with my guy best friend on Friday, because I was broken up with my boyfriend at that point. We spent the WHOLE day flirting, making cupcakes and smearing cupcake mix on each other faces, finding any excuse to touch, catching each others' eye, etc. It was very clear that we liked each other and we could openly talk about it.

So around 11 o'clock, he asked me to go on a walk. We ended up in a field, where we set our blanket, and laid under the stars. There it happened - he finally kissed me about 3 years. We cuddled and kissed more. We got to a point where my shirt was pulled up and stuff. He announced that he really liked me and has for a long time, but he wasn't able to do it before.

One problem: He still has a thing, and was still talking to a girl that just recently moved across the country and isn't coming back. I asked him if he is going to tell her. His response "I have to tell her. I mean she's not coming back here so it would be hard for us to connect." So, for now we are keeping it a secret from everyone, because we can't be together right now. We can't tell his family or anyone. He said it sucks but we will be together, but we are just going to take it slow. He said he would wait for me as he kissed me.

But once we got back, my psycho ex-boyfriend came to my best guy friend's house because he thought I was going to be home earlier and he wanted to pick me up. I had to tell him that it was completely over and we were not going to talk anymore to him right in front of the guy I just barely kissed. However, I didn't tell my ex boyfriend what we had done.

Anyway, so after I said my goodbyes, my new boy drove me home and kissed me good night...

Fast forward 4 days later. He hasn't really texted me at all, except for responding 6 hours to a day later. The texts haven't been as flirty as they were, and he hasn't made any effort to start conversations. I have also seen him flirting with the other girl across country over twitter and Facebook, so I don't think he has told her yet. I'm just confused. Does he want to be with/ actually like me?... or what should I do? I don't want to lose him. I feel like I'm bothering him. How long will it take to tell her? WIll he?