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My parents are split up but have decided that both have the right to still be a part of the family. My dad comes over for Christmas, birthdays, family celebrations, and comes over a couple times a week to see my sister and I.

I feel really uncomfortable leaving my little sister alone with him. On days I have to work, my dad and sister spend their time together and she always looks anxious and uncomfortable when I come home from work. She has problems with her back so my dad offers to massage her and it's creepy to me. He's also stares at her body a lot, keeps comparing her to mom, and gets really angry whenever she tells him "no!". He also keeps trying to get her to come to his apartment alone, emphasizing that nobody else should be around. My sister told mom and I that he made sexual jokes about his penis and often suggests not to bring her cellphone when they go on drives.

Girls, do your fathers act like this to you? Does it make you uncomfortable? I thought maybe I wouldn't know because I'm a guy and dads treat their sons different from their daughters. But the way dad acts around my sister really creeps me out.

I dated this girl I used to work with for a year before we split because of our religous differences. And that was in June of 2014.
In August and November we had two different exchanges that brought each other closure from the relationship.
But in June of 2016, she reached out to me again and we started to date once more. Until she left on her mission in December of 2016.
We officially ended things in June of 2017.
Once again, we had an exchange in August and recently again in November of this year with the same result.
It's feels so similar it's kinda creepy. Even in 2015 and 2018 I dated a girl at this point of the year that had very similar things happen in each situation.

Could things be completely repeating themselves or is this all just a coincidence? My brain hurts.

I have a 13 year old girl, her mom and I are split. Her mom just random told her at volleyball signing last night she wants to send her for a physical (external and internal exam). My daughter is very uncomfortable with the idea and feels it's unnecessary as she's had no problems. I totally understand how she feels as i dont like unnecessary invasive exams either. I want to support her in waiting until she's older but also wanna do what's right for her too. And i think a doctor would agree its early, but some doctors are idiots and I'd prefer a broader opinion from girls. Thanks