Search Results: white guys dating black girls

I live in a bi - racial family.

my sister is a college student, my sister Came to me and asked me what type of girls I liked
i said I prefer to marry a mixed, biracial woman, or light skinned black woman
but id date a white/black girl

Race/skin color doesn’t matter to me,
it’s just bi racial/light skinned girls
rub me the right way, instantly.

Anyway, most men in my family go for white women
there are majority of females in my family tree, but the men we do have go for white women, even our dark skinned side of the family.

My sister asked to see the girl I liked
I showed her the girl (she’s bi racial)
& she said:
”Good, she’s Black.. we don’t need anymore guys in our family dating white women”

but my sister is dating a white man
my sister has only ever dated white men.

I will sometimes dream about this girl I met only twice in my life.

She was petite, innocent, and very girly. She was 18 and I was 20 I think. We both attended the same college. She loved dance and was a disney fanatic.

Anyways, at the time, my parents were undergoing marital issues. They still are. My parents cheated on each other with their high school boyfriend/girlfriend.

This girl was a virgin and she wanted to wait until marriage for sex. I had the assumption she had also never been in a relationship before.

Well, come to discover, she was in a serious relationship for two years when she was younger. This absolutely crushed me. Really, I still have not recovered from that completely.

She is dating this half breed guy now (part black, part white). She has been with him for 2-3 years now.

I had a dream about her last night and it has torn me up today.

Ever since, I still have not been able to get over a woman's past.

I wish me an a girl could of met when we were young, fell in love, and loved each other for life. That we could of been our first everything. I know that sounds like a fantasy, but I feel I soulf have been happier than I am now.

I'm a black guy that's grown up in predominantly white neighborhoods, attended predominantly white schools, and has been a member of mostly black/mixed churches. I tend to embrace the things that are stereotypically black like fried chicken, basketball, and rap/R&B music. However, I also enjoy some stereotypically white things like watching shows similar to Friends, taking Facebook quizzes, and eating healthy/organic.

My black friends always pick on me for the white stuff, especially the healthy eating. They also say I'm too privileged and always try to count my money. My white friends don't care at all. They tend to embrace my uniqueness, but they don't see me as one of them, if you know what I mean.

When it comes to dating, I've gone out with mostly mixed girls and one black girl. They were cool, but most of them wanted to be just friends and 2 of them saw me as not black enough.

Many people from church members to my mom pressure me to date black women, particularly dark-skinned. However, mostly white and mixed girls will say hi or smile at me in public, at school, or at work. Black girls don't give me attention that often.

I did something unconventional for me recently and attended a black probate at my university. I garnered attention from a lot of black girls. They patted me on my shoulder and started saying/asking things like "what frat you in", "you crispy", and "nice haircut". One of my friends told me I should cross and join a frat. But that's not for me. I don't want to not be myself, just to get the attention from black women that my mom and church members desire.

Within the past month, quite a few white girls have approached me and one even asked me on a date. I've never been with a white girl and am considering going that route. But then part of me thinks I should hold out for another mixed or black girl to come along. I really don't know which way to go. I want to be in a real long term relationship for once and be happy.

I'm curious. Very curious. I'm open to all people but always wonder how others view me. No, I won't reveal what I am, but as a guy I am generally interested in dating white, Asian or Black women.

Explain why you don't like these certain types of men. Is it the looks or the personality you dislike?

I'm an Indian living in Atlanta and most of my girlfriends were white, and without trying to brag, we're also extremely good looking. Whenever we go out in public, white guys always harass us, try hitting on her right in front of me, make racial slurs against me, and call her a lose "for going for the Indians". And it's only white guys that do this. When I dated a super model type black girl last year, no one harassed us.

One of my white friends told me that when he sees a minority with a hot white girl, he feels a knee-jerk reaction of anger. He told me he is only attracted to white girls and as long as whites are sticking to whites, there will be a girl for him, but when minorities get some white girls, his dating pool is limited. Obviously he doesn't harass people and is supportive of me and once even threatened to flatten some guy who was harassing me, but he can't help how he instinctively feels. So I was wondering if his feelings were the root cause of the bullying me and my girlfriends have had to endure. Do white guys hate it when minorities date hot white girls? I get that Atlanta is in the South, but I don't experience racism in any other situation. In fact older guys tend to be more racist and they have never said anything about my dating. It's only guys my age and a little older (basically who still have 20 year old girls as potential dating prospects) who harass me.