Why do white guys refuse to date white girls who've been with black guys?

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I always seem to end up dating black guys. But the last one get me pregnant and then run off. I just want to forget it and do my best to bring up my child.

I'm having a hard time being rejected by all men I find interesting. I fell in love with my coworker. But he rejects me. Now it seems like I'm invisible to white guys no matter how much I show interest in dating them.

Why do white guys act that way?

SlavicAmericanGuy · Accepted Answer

Why we should want you?
1. You are a SINGLE MOM.
2. White "mudsharks" tend to be very vocal about their race obsessed fetish, often demeaning white men.
3. It's common to see they ranting and saying disrespectful things like "sorry white boys, once you go black, BM are more masculine", and other racial bullshit stereotypes that media sells. Unclassy.
4. Black mudfuckers tend to be very disrespectful towards black women and treat them like trash. They win in life bc can get a mediocre WW as a trophy.
5. They tend to pander the ego of BM and submit themselves to worst forms of sexism and rape apology to please BM, often, as I said, degrading WM to idealize BM. This kill the selfesteem of suscetible shy young white guys making them feeling inadequate. That's why we see a plenty of stupid questions like "do white girls hate white guys?" here in GAG.
6. WM must view you like a gold digger seeking for provider husband. Believe me, almost none of us want to be perceived as walking wallet.

Since when we are obligated to love this kind of women? I'm racist? I don't think so. I've already dated so many black girls. And guess what? I know they has dated BM before me, it does not bother me. Why sacrifice our well being? To please a confuse girl? Unfortunately the good girls pay for the trashy behave of others.

Shane_B · Accepted Answer

Because girls are sooo streo-typical and judge-mental about skin colour and dick size and insult white guys like me for fun...

This is how all females made me feel based on my skin colour and my dick size...

Didn't help that I was bullied by girls, mainly through my teenage years saying shit like this and anything and everything negative towards white guys since I was 13 years old, and it got worse as I got older cause I was a virgin as well... still a virgin now because of girls like you... I avoid you all... I'm not a virgin by choice, I just happen to be white and apprently have a small dick so no females go out with me and constantly reject me...

Also, I WAS THE ONLY WHITE British KID IN MY SCHOOL AND WAS BULLIED DAILY FOR ALL MY 5 YEARS IN SCHOOL, FROM YEAR 7 TO YEAR 11... BY GUYS AND GIRLS, VERBAL AND PHYSICAL...

Now I have depression, anxiety and a personality disorder because of bullies...

And I'm extremely insecure, thank you to all you dumb streo-typical judge-mental bitches...

You don't know how much you damage guys like me mentally, I just don't show it or talk about it...

Jaye234 · Accepted Answer

I'd say its the single mom thing and has nothing to do with the race of your child. Even if you had a divorce, men still don't want to date a woman with a child/children.

MrOracle · Answer

It has little to do with who you slept with and more to do with the fact that you were irresponsible and now you are a single mother. Most guys don't want to raise some other guy's kid, and they feel like you are not relationship material.

ChronicThinker · Answer

Their dicks are small, that's why.

TFXNYC · Answer

I wouldn't say it's a race issue. Although some men might red flag you because of it. But it would prolly have to do more with you being a single mother. For many men (as MGTOW preaches), they would NEVER date a single mom. If you look online and search reasons why to NEVER date a single mom, you see many reasons. Some may or may not have any valid truth. Depends on the woman. But single moms are stigmatized, much like short guys. You just have to filter through and seek someone who will accept you. Good luck. And I'm sorry you got pumped and dumped. (excuse the expression, but I've seen this pattern a million times)

Alessus · Answer

Personally, I'd have no interest in you, not because your ex was black, but because you have a child. I have no interest in having children of my own and even less for looking after someone elses and naturally I'd assume that the child would feature heavily on your life, posing limitations and possibly sudden changes to plans, which I would have to face with someone who doesn't have a child.

Anonymous · Answer

Probably less about the fact that he's black, really it's the fact that you are a single mom and most guys (myself included) absolutely do not want to go there. It tells a guy that you probably do not have good judgement and are prone to bad choices.
The race does actually matter in a more roundabout way though - if your child was white, and the three of you are out together or something, it's at least not blatantly obvious that it is not his child. Many men will see it as embarrassing or emasculating to be seen to be raising a child that is clearly not theirs.

Anonymous · Answer

You had a black guy who got you knocked up and then bolted... WHAT, that NEVER happens!

The reason we don't care for females like yourself is for the exact reason you just proved. Women who date black guys are generally idiots. They hook up with thugs and then when they have to deal with their responsibilities they look for a white guy to play the moral janitor for their mistakes and clean up their life.

Make better decisions BEFORE you decide you want to settle down, not AFTER you fuck your life up.

HamAndCheese · Answer

Because you clearly have terrible judgement. You're a single mom with a mixed race kid, that wreaks of trailer trash, and is generally a liability.

Anonymous · Answer

It isn't the black men that turns them off, it is the fatherless child. I know it sucks.. but guys in your age bracket are not looking for a ready made family. They want to start one of their own. There is also an idea that things could potentially be rushed.

hahahmm · Answer

Dunno but as you get older guys will care less about the fact you have a kid. After all, 90% of attractive women have a kid at some point. Older guys won’t care much about you having a kid either.

mattmanyah · Answer

I don't think it's all white guys I think it's just the fact that you have a child... I don't have a child why would I date someone with a child... they're calling me racist because I don't want to raise your baby and that's not fair...

WalterRadio · Answer

They don't all, but maybe this has something to do with it:

Anonymous · Answer

It has more to do with you being a single mother, but having a mixed child shows you knew what you were getting into.

Generally most white men have careers or expectations for a serious relationship, they don't have time for single mothers.

Why do white guys refuse to date white girls who've been with black guys?

LegateLanius · Answer

There is a saying that might be true for some "Once you go black we don't want you back". I don't care for someone's past except that i would not date a single mother. Good luck. I am sure that someone will want to be with you.

cth96190 · Answer

Because white women who have gone outside of their race are seen as soiled/damaged goods, who have shown themselves to be unfit to become the mothers of white children.

KalyanVicky · Answer

Everyone has different tastes maybe you are not there type. You might like someone , same way some may find others attractive or repulsive it all depends on u not ur past

SebShaw82 · Answer

Not all white guys are like that. Those who are probably have some inferiority complex or some stupid sense of betrayal.

abc3643 · Answer

Because we don't "measure up", if you know what I mean.

Anonymous · Answer

He didn't get you pregnant, you both made a decision to have sex and you both are responsible.

That aside, how do you it's being you were black guys. Maybe it's because you have a child or you're just not interesting to them.

TheLawless1 · Answer

Because we have standards and we're not gonna date some used-up, trailer-trash, mudshark.

El_Prez · Answer

I wouldn't date a single mom. So maybe that's the real issue and not the racial aspect.

Why do white guys refuse to date white girls who've been with black guys?

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