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My boyfriend broke up with me about 12 days ago. We had been dating for almost a year and it came as a huge surprise to me since we were making plans for the future. He was always the girl in my opinion. IE He asked me to be his girlfriend, asked about anniversary plans, etc. We had our very first big blow up and he decided to end things.

I text him a few days later apologizing for my behavior as I started the fight , and said I still wanted to be his girl if he'd have me. He said he wasn't good at relationships and that he can't be in one right now because he has too many problems. He tells me I'm perfect and amazing. How he loves and cares about me very much, how I'm the best girlfriend ever, and that he still wants me in his life when this all blows over as friends.

I told him that I accept his decision to break things off but we can't be friends.

I then asked when we should meet up to exchange our belongings (he has my entire dvd collection). He told me to just trash his stuff. Which of course I won't do because that stupid and messed up. I then suggest dropping it off at the security station at his apt complex to aviod any uncomfortableness we may have.

He said that was crazy and that we could meet up. I said I only wanted to drop off and exchange via my car. He says he doesn't understand why we can't see each other and talk since we've dated for almost a year.

I told him it wasn't good for me and that after this conversation I don't know what else there is to talk about. He seemed to be getting fussy over it so I told him we could talk on the phone and to let me know when he wanted to do it since he has a busy schedule.

That was a week ago and I haven't heard anything. Is there a reason why he's prolonging this break up? It was his decision after al

I was in a relationship with him for almost two years, known him for three years, we were engaged for like five months, and I broke it off with him because... well, here's a link to his pros and cons and I think you'll get an idea of why I left... link

So anyways, I left him. and I didn't talk to him for about three weeks, and for the first week he constantly texted me in the morning and at night, but I never responded. I was afraid that if I did I would be leading him on and I didn't want him to think there was still a chance of us getting back together. today I texted him and asked him to mail a pair of my extra car keys and one of my dvd sets that I left with him, and it got us into a conversation. anyways, we decided to stay friends and we've been texting on and off today. What is worrying me is that he is showing signs that he still wants to be with me. he even told me he would wait for me so that we could start over in a few years. I have told him over and over that I just want to be friends. am I doing the wrong thing by even talking to him? I really don't want to lead him on but I don't want to be mean to him either. but if being mean spares him heartbreak then I will. I just want to know how I should handle this. and for all those wondering, I have no intention of getting back together with him. so I'm fine with doing anything I need to. I don't have to have him as a friend, I just thought it would be nice if it ended on good terms. but I am in no way romantically connected to him any more.