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We have been a year relationship with my boyfriend.
But he has to go to another city to earn money.

Last July, my boyfriend visited me and I saw that there was a girl who keeps calling him and he won't take the call. When he left the phone in the car, he named this girl "Dianne GF" in another city. This girl texted him, babe how are you doing? I got to my boyfriend and confronted him about it. He said it's just a typo error of girlfriend and we are just friends.

On August - October, my boyfriend visits me one to two weeks per month. We still have communication and we see each other.

On November, I called my boyfriend at 3 AM, I wonder why he can't take my calls.
I keep calling him until he answers.
On the next day, there was a girl who chatted me on facebook named Dianne. I was shock because it seems that this girl is spying on me. She saw my name on his phone while playing a game on his phone at 3 Am and ask if am his girlfriend. She said she wants to know the truth. my boyfriend said to her that we already break up. I ask this girl if they have a relationship with my boyfriend and if they had sex. She said no we are just friends and we have never had sex and we are many in the house with my other friends. I only told him that you can stay in our house but you have to respect them. She said she just wants to know the truth about us. . I told her I am his girlfriend. This girl said I don't want to break any relationship. I asked her, why she call my boyfriend babe? She said, No it's just misunderstood. I call everyone "babe" whether a boy or a girl. He just stays at my house because he said he needs to earn money to help his family. I should not tell him that she chatted with me.
I confronted my boyfriend that "Dianne" chatted me, and he replied "Good luck to you both."
And when I get back to facebook, this girl suddenly blocked me.

I am confused

We have been a year relationship with my boyfriend.
But he has to go to another city to earn money.

Last July, my boyfriend visited me and I saw that there was a girl who keeps calling him and he won't take the call. When he left the phone in the car, he named this girl Dianne girlfriend in another city. This girl texted him, babe how are you doing? I got to my boyfriend and confronted him about it. He said it's just a typo error of girlfriend and we are just friends.

On August - October, my boyfriend visits me one to two weeks per month. We still have communication and we see each other.

On November, I called my boyfriend at 3 AM, I wonder why he can't take my calls.
I keep calling him until he answers.
On the next day, there was a girl who chatted me on facebook named Dianne. I was shock because it seems that this girl is spying on me. She saw my name on his phone while playing a game on his phone at 3 Am and ask if am his girlfriend. She said she wants to know the truth. my boyfriend said to her that we already break up. I ask this girl if they have a relationship with my boyfriend and if they had sex. She said no we are just friends and we have never had sex and we are many in the house with my other friends. I only told him that you can stay in our house but you have to respect them. She said she just wants to know the truth about us. . I told her I am his girlfriend. This girl said I don't want to break any relationship. I am just his friend and he stays at my house. I should not tell him that she chatted with
I confronted my boyfriend about this girl who chatted with d later on, Dianne blocked me on facebook.

I am confused

I have been into a one-year relationship with my boyfriend. During the half year, I didn't know he doing something fishy.

June: My boyfriend went to another City to pay his full rent because his friend suddenly left him. He also said to me that he has to go to another city to earn money.
July: I didn't know he was using tinder and meeting a girl named Dianne. This girl offers him a house to live in into that city.
August: He went back to me and ask to live with him. As his girlfriend, I said Yes. He left all his things and cars in the house. But during this month, there was a girl who keeps calling him every single day, he named it as Dianne girlfriend." I asked him why he put girlfriend, he said its nothing just typo error. Only a friend in another City. We paid half of the house bills.
September: The whole of September, he didn't go back to the City and only said that he has to sell all his things because he has no more money. During this month we still split bills.
October: He went back to me but only for a week. He got very mad at me because I wasn't able to pay my share for the rent because I have to pay my overdue loan.
November: I kept calling him but he never picks up my call. That time, I get irritated and I keep calling him at 3 am. He picks up his phone finally and got mad saying WHAT DO YOU WANT?
A day after, there was a girl named Dianne who chatted me on facebook. She was asking if I am having a relationship with him and my boyfriend lied to her that we already break up.
She said, they are just friends and she doesn't want to destroy a relationship. But I wonder why he reach out to me and been spying and even said I shouldn't tell him
I get very mad when I knew he was living with a girl because he lied to me that he was living with a boy. I did not want to pay the rent because of this and he yelled at me saying, USELESS GIRLFRIEND.

I still have small money left should I still pay for the house rent or not?

My family is making a scandal to me and my boyfriend in the company. It is utterly because they don't like my boyfriend. I was thinking that my boyfriend was just misunderstood to false accusation against him. He scammed before for his sister to finished college and also he was accused raped by her ex girlfriend who only exploited his money. Now that he met me, everything is very chaos. My family tried to isolate me and not allowed to go anywhere even work. They want me to stopped working even if without my consent. I tried to escaped from the situation with help of my co-workers and I now live alone peacefully. Sometimes, we met with my boyfriend or went to his house but neither did I know they paid guards to spy if I visited him and that is why I was caught but in the early morning I was able to escape again. I am so mad why all these happen. I know my family only wants one thing it is to return to home but I don't want to live in isolation and no WORK!

After I was able to escape, I didn't know they went immediately to my workplace and made a big scandal. They talk to my manager, supervisor, senior and hr manager. They destroyed my image that I was manipulated by my boyfriend who is a rapist and scammer. And, I forget them for my boyfriend. They said I am not a good daughter , sick because of boyfriend who has aids (which is not true!) , was SCAM and used (not True). I never went home anymore that I do this shit and many bad things about me.

Whenever I go to office, it feels like the environment is weird. People are avoiding me and sometimes treating me bad. I am so tired and I know my family embarrassed me. But this is only my source of income because even my family stolen my bank accounts and things!

Should I leave the company? or should I stay. I need your advice badly.