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Me and my girlfriend of 4 years have recently moved in and need an argument settled between us. First off, I make more money and I always have. Not just a little more, I make almost 5x more than she does. Neither of us want to get married but we know we want to be together as if we are a married couple. I always assumed that once we moved in together she would want to stop working because I already pay for everything so she'd be a house girlfriend but we talked about it and that's not what she wants anymore, she made it clear that if we're both working the chores have to be split equally and she wants to retain her independence so that means keeping our finances separate. I don't have a problem with her working or anything but at the same time, chores aren't my thing so I hired a maid/cook to clean up after me and cook for me. Basically keep my office, man cave, living room clean, do my laundry and cook for me whenever I'm home since she's vegan and refuses to cook meat. It was ok at first but recently she's been in an off mood and when I asked her why, she said it wasn't fair that I'm rubbing my wealth in her face by hiring someone else to do everything for me when it takes her hours to do her chores and that if she has to do her own chores, I should be doing my own ones too. I got a little annoyed and responded saying that what I do with my money isn't her concern and now we aren't talking.

So,
First, I've no girlfriend, but there is this girl with whom I've been talking online for 3 or 4 weeks, and she's kind to me.
a week ago, she broke up with her boyfriend because they're too different..
She said to me she love him but it will never work.
Now, we talk even more when she's not at work. She seems into me.. She says lots of 💋 and 😇.
We're not on the same boat for several importants things about a relationship.
(We both want a serious one. But she would like to have lots of kids, and I only want one or two, she's vegan, I love meat, and she lives far away (600km I think?).

But the day before yesterday, she asked me to go to Disneyland (or another amusement park) with her, for a week end. That'd include a night together.

I'm affraid not to be worth her money, because she wants to pay (And I'm broke anyway, like really broke).
We'd go in September..

But what do you think of it?
She seems into me, but I'm not worth it..
Should I say yes, and just plain enjoy?
When we spoke yesterday evening, she said "it'll be good to both of us having this break"..