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I work with a guy who is divorcing. We have been friends for years. We got in an argument a month ago. He quit coming to see me. Completely ghosted me. He was coming everyday before for months. I went to apologize to him. Everything was great. Sex talk. Sweet nothings. Then he ghosts me again. After I left, he said to his coworker "why would I want to get in another relationship when I'm trying to get out of this one"? This was a guy that was going out of his way to see me. I don't know what to think. Why are you being romantic then telling our coworker this? Unfortunately his wife works here too. I'm crazy about him but I didn't say anything about getting in a relationship, so why would he say that. I think working on a friendship is first especially during this time. If he doesn't want anything, he has had a year to tell me. Did he just not want my coworker knowing he cares for me? Is he confused? I don't know what to think. If he doesn't have feelings for me, why is he ghosting (avoiding) me. He is MIA. When I'm around, he is sweet as pie. One minute he acts like he forgave me and whispers sweet nothings. Then He tells my coworker that. We are a no fault state. She can't take him to the cleaners. Me and a couple of other people really thought he had /has feelings toward me. I'm confused.

My crush flirts with me like he gets paid to, well it seems that way, but he won't ask me out or make a real move on me. We
constantly do little touches, sit all pressed together, he touches my hands, arms, hair, we whisper and have secrets, people comment on how we have little secrets and it bugs them, he spends every free minute with me at school, teases me if I don't remember every detail of every convo we've ever had, texts me whenever about whatever, tells me all his secrets, teases me nonstop, but what drives me nuts is the staring!
Every day he stares at me, smiling dopily and saying nothing. I love it, but it makes me want to scream WHAT DO YOU WANT? I finally got the nerve to whisper that to him today when he kept smiling and staring for minutes on end. He said, "Just looking!" in a really sweet way. Then, out of nowhere, at least in our convo, he says "I have to tell you how great your hair looks today!" I blushed and put my hands over my face.
He said this like he was drunk or high, but I know he wasn't. I know it's cheesy but I really felt like his eyes were burning me or like I was a cheeseburger or something, lol. Then I asked him what he was thinking about and he said about how nice it's been knowing me all through school and about all the great things I've done TO him (Freudian slip)! Then he got super embarrassed, laughed really too much and said how he meant FOR him and how could he have said such a thing, etc.

So then I said someday I was going to tell him everything I don't have the guts to say. He thought I meant bad stuff about him and I said of course not. I wanted to say there were lots of things I want to do to him but I'm afraid he just wants to be friends. But, he insists we're already in an "intimate relationship" and we've said I love you tons of times. But every time I drive him home and hope for a kiss, he lays his head backward on my shoulder so I can only caress his face. Why doesn't he want to kiss me?

My guy friend and I are incredibly intimate. We've been friends for three years but at the end of last term I felt like things changed. He would seek me out several times a day, leave stuff in my locker to have a reason to see me before and after school, find out my schedule so we could spend as much time together as possible, be in the same after school clubs with me, etc. He told me he really likes talking to me and spending time with me.

The catch is that he has a gf of 13 months (she goes to a diff school). Here's where I get confused. A month ago I went to a play at school bc he was working the soundboard. He invited me to sit in the balcony next to him, met me downstairs, walked up with me and then introduced me to GF, who was also doing sound! He never told me she was going to be there, but he claimed he did. Then he says, in front of her, that we are his two favorite people and asks me if I want to sit behind him and whisper sweet nothings in his ear! He had the nerve to complain about how he had to "put up with" her touching his knee while I was there.

We message a lot on FB and talk about everything: family stuff, school, sex, hobbies, and he vents to me about gf a lot. He tells me that he blows up at her, they fight a lot, he "loves her to death but can't shake her" and is bored with her. He found out she had been role playing online with another guy and they were in virtual love and she was having his pretend child. After that he broke up with her and made her cry but they made up. He told me he's only slept with her. He also said that girls at school tried to get him into a 3way but he wasn't attracted to them so he didn't. Guys... WHY is he telling me this stuff? Why, if I am just a friend, do I need to know where he keeps his condoms, what kind they are and where he keeps his lube? He also talks about eating p&@$y
more than seems normal and likes to play songs for me about it... why?