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I'm in a bit of a situation or maybe I'm just being a selfish materialistic girlfriend. My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year. The relationship has been the best I've ever had. He talks about marriage and moving in.

He's Korean. We celebrate 100, 200, and 300 days of dating. I'm not Korean. On our first 100 days of dating he completely shocked my pants off and bought me the bag I had been eyeballing for months. I'm not an overly excited person so he was a little worried I didn't like it. Eventually he believed that I was in love with the bag. (Because I was)

On the 200th and 300th day he DIDN'T get me a gift. I rationalized that it was reasonable. We had our first argument the day before the 200th and the 300th I said not to get me anything. I was expecting him to get me a Christmas gift. That wasn't too far away. In fact I even said that to him as well. Secretly though, I thought he still would. He didn't. He said, "You're going to have to wait. I didn't have time."

I leaving the day before Christmas so I thought the days before he might give me my present. He knew I had gotten him one. The night before I left he said he didn't know I wanted a gift. I didn't really know how to respond. I figured it was a given. It's not like he's never dated before. He said he use to buy his last girlfriend designer bags all the time. I know he works a lot. I know he has money. He spent $275 on a gift for MY grandmother's 80th birthday present.

I get home. No present for me.

Today is our one year anniversary. I am not expecting to get anything. I'm expecting nothing but dinner and netfilx. It makes me feel not important. I'm not worth anything to him but the fact that he can say he has a girlfriend. I'm depressed and don't feel like I want to go out for our anniversary. I'm not excited AT ALL.

Is not gifting normal?

So my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years now. He tells me he loves me often and will tell me not to leave him, but the past year or so things have been seriously declining and he just doesn't really put much effort into the relationship anymore. He does have a lot of issues going on at home and is dealing with depression but it is seriously running into our relationship and he doesn't feel like doing anything to work on his problems. And if I ever tell him that something he does bothers me, he pretty much ignores what I say and doesn't do anything to change it, and I'm not bothered by insignificant things.. Then yesterday was my birthday and he didn't show up to my house until 4 o clock and he did nothing special to make me feel important. He sent me a pretty basic happy birthday text in the morning but didn't give me a card, flowers, a present, nothing at all. The weird thing is he asked me about a week ago when we were doing presents and I said on the day of my birthday but then it came and he did nothing. I'm just tired of feeling insignificant to him and like I don't matter, especially when I put so much effort into doing nice things for him and trying to make him happy. Should I just cut my losses and break up with him?