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My boyfriend lives with his parents but says he wants his *own* place. We have talked about living together before but I told him I don't want to live together unless we are engaged. He said he wants to get engaged but I don't think he's ready because a month prior he was saying things like he misses his freedom and talking to another girl. I've said I want my own place too, I currently live with my mom, but i would never cheat i just wanna live alone for a while. I'm not ready to live with him which means cleaning up after him, cooking, doing his laundry unless I'm at least his fiancé. Im worried that him getting his own place means he will bring other girls there and make it some sort of bachelor pad. He said he wouldn't cheat on me but it's just where my mind goes, maybe I don't trust him. What do you guys think? He wants his *own* place means he wants privacy and he might cheat? Please share your thoughts. thanks!

Hi,

I met a sweet guy. He is smart, witty and fun to be around. He claims to like me but I dont feel it. Everytime I am coming to his house he is not as enthusiastic to see me and we never spent a whole day together. He just came to Switzerland for studies and he seems to be very focused. I dont feel loved. I asked him about his previous relationship. He had a 4 year relationship. It ended because it got worse and worse and he said he wasn't he really good boyfriend to her, always around other girls (something in this direction, he didn't say he cheated). She went off with another men and he was heart-broken. But he also said that she is very bossy and always wanted to be better than everyone else, his friends didn't like her at all. So, will he be a bad boyfriend to me too? His career is obviously very important for him. I am worried. I said to him I dont think it is working between us. Then he said :

I think this is a thing that we should clear, and maybe its better if we talk about you in person. But please, you have to understand me. I am happy to be with you, I like you really a lot and I love to be with you and spend my time with you. And its also true that I am very, very busy. But thats not the point. I have many interests, I like to do a lot of things, and I really want my lifte to be as full as possible. Thats why I can't promise you that I can give you the attention and time that you might want, but that also means that when I spend time with you its because I really want to and I am sharing with you the most precious thing I own. Besides that, I dont that we are not seeing each other enough... Personally I beliebe that its not healthy in a relationship to spend every day together...

I mean, it sounds really logical, but I dont feel loved when I dont get the attention I deserve... I am also busy with school but I am not as outgoing as he is... Maybe we just dont fit... What do you think about it?