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Hi everyone, so this actually happened a few years ago, obviously I'm over the guy by now, but I still wonder about it sometimes, and thought I might get some answers on here!

I used to fancy this guy who was a barman in my favourite bar. We had mutual friends and had chatted a few times. I used to wonder if he was interested, as he used to look over and catch my eye, and we'd smile at each other, and he would talk to me at the bar.

My friend told me that he was a bit shy around women, and he had only had one girlfriend before.

So I decided to be brave and asked him if he'd like to go for a drink sometime. He said yes, so I gave him my number, and then my friends and I left the bar to go somewhere else. (We were friends on facebook as well.)

I asked one of my male friends how long he would take to get in touch, if he was interested. He said that it would be a few days at the most. But I heard nothing at all from him for 3 weeks. I was really embarrassed and felt like I'd made a fool of myself, by asking him out when he wasn't interested.

So I went out with some friends and we ended up in his bar. Another guy started flirting, I liked him, so I let him kiss me near the end of the night. The barman saw. So then he started ignoring me, every time I went to the bar, he would turn and walk away. My friend saw what was happening, and agreed he was avoiding me.

The next time we were in the bar, he did it again. He kept walking away, and wouldn't serve me or talk to me, until my friend kind of forced him to, by coming to the bar with me, and shouting him, so he had to come over, and I started a conversation with him. After that, he did start talking to me and being friendly again, and things have been fine since (although we don't bump into each other often anymore).

So why did he get in a mood when I kissed another guy?