There is no such thing as "PLAYING HARD TO GET"

[BubbleBoy69]

It all comes down to how much she likes you. And the more she likes you the less crap she will put you through and the more crap she will take from you.

A women that really likes you will be very cooperative. No games, funny business, she will have sex with you pretty quickly, just enjoys spending time with you and being there etc.

Now take that same women with a guy she isn't so interested in. Best believe she's ignoring or taking her time to reply to this guy's phone calls and text messages despite the fact she knows she doesn't like him and he's feeling her. She likes the attention and the power she has over him. She's most likely playing games with this dude, dangling the pussy over his head, etc.

So while yes you should be a man and lead the relationship. Initiate conversation first, start up convos to gauge mutual interest and find out about each other and ask her out of a date. If she is interested she will message you also, she will want to get to know you and she will not flake on you for date unless it's something really serious.

So use the 3 strike rule and your out when it comes to women:

1) Do I always have to start the conversation --- Strike 1

2) Am I always the one who shows interest and try to find out about her but she doesn't seem to be that interest about me and my life ---- Strike 2

3) Does she flake on me dates ---- Strike 3

She's out. Stop contacting her. If she does contact you later down the road, it's a very good chance she's an attention whore whose just trying to lure you back into her BS games. At this point you cut the chit chat and go straight for asking her if she wants to go out. If she responds with yes, then you flip the script. You don't plan out the date and give her a time this time. You've already made the effort first time around.This time you ask you to plan out the date and give you a time to meet her, and hell even pick you up. If she is interested in you then she will respond back. Else this was just a last ditch effort of hers to fuck with you and you need to move on and tell her to fuck off.

There is no such thing as a man "deserving a woman". If you can get her you can get her, period.

[Shorty1991]

"The more she likes you, the less crap she'll put you through".
Nah, she wants to gauge whither you're serious about her in the first place or just want to bang her. If a guy really likes me, he'll make an effort to talk to me. Vice versa when I like guys.
A lot of guys aren't even capable of talking to women the they like. Which makes the whole process even harder for them. If they never try, then they'll never know where they stand.
"So while yes you should be a man and lead the relationship. Initiate conversation first, start up convos to gauge mutual interest and find out about each other and ask her out of a date."
It's not a gender role, If a guy has a crush on a girl then obviously he should at least attempt to talk to her and out to know her before he asks her out. Likewise if its a woman that has the love interest in a guy.
"Do I always have to start the conversation"
No, you shouldn't always have to initiate conversations. If she isn't prepared to put equal effort into conversations then just forget her. This is what I mean about people with crushes than can't even act on it in the first place and why im so reluctant to take those guys by the hand and initiate for them, because I have the hunch that I would have to take the lead and initiate all of the time.
So if you think that men never do this, think again because they do.
I do agree with the next two points, if they are really interested in you they'll ask you plenty of questions to find out more about you. Yeah, if she always comes up with excuses when you ask her out on dates, then that's a sure fire sign that she isn't interested. If she was she would be willing to spend as much time with you as they can.

[Anonymous]

Yeah good points. But it is bs by some women who claim that "oh he never told me he liked me". Do you REALLY think a guy will act really nice to you if he isn't interested in you?

Pls check out my question: www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q2046147-is-a-woman-more-likely-to-be-openly-sexual-with-someone-who-isn-t

[Jayson101]

"And the more she likes you the less crap she will put you through and the more crap she will take from you."

This whole statement is so utterly false. Hahahahaha oh my goodness. It's just so outside of what happens with women.

[aliceinwonderland69]

Yea, guys that complain about girls playing games are just going after girls that don't really like them.

[nethi]

Yeah the comment about playing hard to get is really true. Especially with me, when I like a guy, I can't stop myself from going after him even if I know I probably shouldn't be doing that.

[foreverloved14]

Same.