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His asking questions like:

•whats am i up too?
•am i still dating the guy i dated after him?
•who i am dating?
•how im going with my hobbies?
•how my family is going?
•if i still have the same car

His also apparently the one wanting to talk to them while they want to just say hi and thats all.

Even on Valentines day, he knows I'm a florist and told my friend that he wanted a flower from me...

Im really worried. Is he just checking up on me or is he trying to bump into me? Why is he being so curious all of a sudden?

•dated for 5 months but he was scared to commit. (1.5years ago)
•Also i was making all the effort and he was too into drugs
•Didnt have a car i had to drive him places
•we went no contact for 2 months however he bumped into my brother then ended up adding each other on facebook (i dont have facebook)
•He bumped into my mum 6months after and asked if im dating anyone she said i have been also that he said he hasn't dated since me.
* I bumped into him 8 months after and he couldnt stop telling me all the changes his made in his life. didn't ask me though. I told him i still care about him, then wished him all the best.
•i bump into him on valentines day at my work and i had flowers and he jokinly said 'are they for me?' And 'you shouldn't have' i just walked passed and smiled.
•my mum yesterday sees him at the shopping plaza and he says 'i was upset she didn't get me flowers' and then mentioned that his stopped drugs, his got a place to rent now and a car and a promotion at work. Mum asked if his dating and he said he dated one girl who was 'pretty' and so smart its 'intimidating'. Then he asked about me and how i am going, and if im still seeing the guy i was dating, mum said no.

Is this his way to try get me back?

For reference, we were together 2 years, we broke up last August, we haven't spoken in 4 months (we agreed on no contact for a few months), and he's convinced that we're getting back together even though I told him I'm not interested. He's very "persistent" (read: doesn't take my 'no' for an answer) and it actually took me about 4 attempts to finally manage to leave him.

Anyway, I got flowers delivered to my house on Valentine's Day, with no tag. I figured they were from my ex, since I couldn't think of any other reason they wouldn't have a note or tag on them... I am seeing someone else currently, but he doesn't know my address, so I knew they weren't from him. Anyway, I called the florist yesterday and they confirmed that my ex ordered the flowers.

So what do I do? Both my parents said I should text him "thanks" because it's the proper thing to do or whatever. And I do feel guilty that he spent money on that. But all my friends say (and I agree) that it took me enough effort to get distance from him, so opening up contact with him would just open up a door that took forever for me to close. Any time I show him kindness or politeness, it just takes even longer to shake him. All he cares about is what he wants. Doesn't matter that I've made it clear I don't want to get back together. If I text him "thanks," I just know he'll take it the wrong way.

Tl;Dr: Clingy ex sent me flowers in an attempt to get me to talk to him because he wants me back and won't take "no" for an answer.