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Search Results: guys being clueless
I can't tell if he likes me or just wants to be friends.
So this guy I work with he and I talk a quite a bit we sit next to each other and talk in between taking calls. He does things like softly punch me in the arm which makes me think that he just wants to be friends but then...
Anonymous
(30-35) Please help me. What do I do in my situation?
I feel like I really need to get this off my chest & ask some other people some opinions.. My boyfriend & I have been dating on and off for 4 years now... we first broke up due to a drinking problem on both our parts..i...
girlygirl6044
Xper 4 Age: 40 I'm Clueless with Girls. Please Help?
I was joking around with some friends, and they were saying that I have no friends. That's when a female acquittance of mine walked by, and I brought her into it. The guys then teased us some, and said I'm too old to date...
Anonymous
(30-35) Does he like me? Help, clueless here...
So there is this guy I'm friends with an he always teases me for going to hard in school. He messes with me and says you look like you are going to have a break down lol but then he also complements me and tells me I look...
emg1012
Xper 5 Age: 34 I'm not sure if he's a player or something. Help?
So... to make things short this guy has been showing great interest in me and, to be frank, I got very, very bothered by it at the start. I dodge him and his effort to be with me BUT I still respond to his advances, in an...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why ask a question, expects an answer but leave no response?
ok this guy I know texted me out of the blue and we were just talking and in the middle of our convo he asked if I still liked him and I told him just I do but when you answer a question you shouldn't wait for a responds...
pebblesstar
Xper 5 Age: 37 So is this guy into me?
We are both seniors in high school. So I am totally into this guy I've known for almost a year now. He was in one of my classes last year and this year I definitely got to know him. I didn't really know him last year I...
Prepsterforlife
Xper 5 Age: 30 Not aware of his actions?
How can a guy not be aware of his actions when they appeared as flirting. People would have seen him act in that manner before but because of knowing him longer and seeing that it didn't progress any further, they excused...
Anonymous
(36-45) He is kinda cheap and a bad kisser, but should I go on dating him?
When I first met him my initial reaction was : wow I kinda like this guy, he is goodlooking, he is interesting. He asked me out and we went for a drink. Before going on a date he went to a night store to bbuy himself a...
Anonymous
(36-45) Just can't seem to flirt?
When it comes to flirting I am totally clueless, I have no idea really on how to talk to women. So you can imagine that flirting would be even harder on top of the approach anxiety. Especially if I see a girl around...
Anonymous
(36-45) How do I show interest in a guy in real life?
I'm in my early 20's no experience except a few dates with a few guys from online who weren't interested. I don't know if its my look they don't like or the way I come off is just not seductive/flirty at all. But then...
Anonymous
(30-35) How do I get guys to approach me especially when I'm so inexperienced?
I'm 23, graduated college...never kissed. I tried pretty hard to get involved in college, but instead of landing dates I understood finally how to talk to guys without blushing and now its easy for me to talk to guy....
Anonymous
(30-35) How to tell if a guy is Interested or just being nice?
I was at the gym and because I'm clueless at how those weight machines work, this guy came over and showed me and said if I wanted we could be training partners so we stay motivated and what not. We've been training...
Anonymous
(30-35) My mom thinks I've 'turned' gay.
I come from Pakistan. Not the most liberal LGBT tolerant place in the world you know. And although my parents are pretty chill about homosexuality, basically, my mom read some sarcastic messages with my bestie about how...
Anonymous
(30-35) Conflicting Understandings of the Notion that Nice Guys Finish Last
A very common question on this forum focuses on the statement "nice guys finish last". There are also questions around the related issue that I paraphrase as "jerks finish first". What surprises me the most about these...
talloak
Guru Age: 66 Did I ruin it and now he lost interest ?
Long but please read as every part is important to the story. Just to mention were both in our twenties. So I met this guy through fb from mutual friends. In the beginning we would like each others pictures untill he...
lovediamonds1
Xper 5 Age: 34 How do I flirt with the coffee guy?
So I'm kind of clueless at flirting. I'm fine if I'm texting someone, but in person it just seems weird, fake, or forced and I feel like an idiot. Well anyway I have a slight crush on my coffee shop guy. What are ways I...
Anonymous
(36-45) You Just Don't Understand
Have you ever been the guy who was often clueless about what was going on? You had a fight with your girlfriend or a girl and you wondered, jeez what's her problem it's just the birthday of some random girl. She screams...
titoloco
Xper 7 Age: 35 I did something horrible and I can't function around her anymore...
I first need to tell what happened leading up to all this. I have a reclusive nature and I don't enjoy being around a bunch of people. I also haven't been in a relationship ever. The last group of friends I made was an...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why are some men so dumb?!
I've been chatting to a guy from my gym (I fancy him) I added him on Facebook and then I inboxed him a week later and we were just talking. He was sending me long messages and we were just talking about our general...
Chanel123
Xper 3 Age: 36 