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There is a friend of mine and we know each other from last 6 years, we were on talking basis intermittently for first 3 years. I told her that I love her around 2 years back, but she said "No" and said she felt bad saying this for me, but she didn't think about me this way. I did this 2-3 times in last 2 years.

but I kept on talking even after those rebuttals, because I can't get my mind away from her.

This year I tried to make my heart strong and I stopped talking to her, for 3-4 months but I again fell to my weak heart and called her. We were on good talking terms after that and she told me that she missed me too and somewhere knew that I was angry on her. Her birthday came in those 4 months and she even messaged me on FB why I am not wishing her.

Yesterday in the night I was again talking to her and suddenly the topic of my love for her came into discussion, I told her again that how much I love her and how her happiness means everything for me. She told me that she can't as she is in love with someone else(similar case). she is stupid and if she was practical enough she would have said yes to me a long time back.

She told me she can't do it right now and maybe we should move ahead with time to see what happens..

I am f****d up in head because of this as every time I meet a girl I start comparing her to my friend, and she wins :(

Please suggest what should I do.

Myself -:

I am a decent looking guy, who has improved drastically in last 4 years. and I look and talk better than I used to look when I first met her. I am doing wonderfully professionaly with a stable job and a good package.