He said I love you but he is ignoring me ? please help

[sesetia]

hii I met this guy online and we talked for 2 months from now and he was so sweat and he send me aloot of his pictures so I'm sure he is guy and I heard his voice ..he is doctor and I'm doctor too I just graduated and he is studying master now and I told him from the beginning I don't believe in love online and he became very sad and he kept comforting me aloot of times and he said I love and you are my girl your everything to me your the air the wind..everything ..i can't tell you how much he was in love with me and my friend know about him too and she said he is honest and beside that he said lets meet I want to see you but I was not so ready...and he send me flower in my birthday ...i mean pic on chat and its said ( beautiful flowers to win a heart of beautiful girl ).and send me beautiful songs about love ...and one day he said I'm not going to be online a lot for week cause of his master he is going to be busy but he said I will be online but the net is bad form his region and its true it was bad cause he write to me and the message will arrived after 12 minutes sometimes I noticed that but he said only week now its the 3ed week .so after his big interest in me I start to fall in love with him and I send him songs and word like I miss you alot... but I realized after my interest in him he just changed and became formal with me and I asked him I said you changed but he said no I'm man I will never change and your my love but the net is bad like I told u...but he never get back as he was he send me silly words like jokes about love and he talks to me very short couple of words and suddenly says good night or bye..and its been 3 days and he never talked to me and I see him online for awhile then he goes and I'm crying since these 3 days...i'm so confused and don't understand what's wrong with him I really love him a lot and see future with him but what can I do...i'm so sorry for writing this much but I'm so sad please help me

P.S the day he said he is going to work hard and be online little the next day he send me amazing song called I will never forget you my love ,this song made me cry and believe he is not forgetting me

[blackkid2]

60 days. Overreacting behavior. Hyperactive complimenting. 14 days. Extreme Counterintuitive Reaction. 72 hrs. omnipresent but unresponsive. Underlying busy behavior.

That's a tricky one. Give me a minute to put it together.

[blackkid2]

Of the twelve scenarios that just played in my head I'll go with the #1 best and the #1 worst:

The Best is that the man is being honest, he is just stressed, overworked, and maintaining contact with you over such a poor connection when he also has to manage the same connection for his work would be at best a terrible struggle. You are present in his mind but so are his studies, and so as to not fail the future he wishes to share with you, he focuses putting for absolute effort...

[sesetia]

ok thank you take your minute and I hope you know what's going on...yes I felt very fast...he was madly in love ...take your time

[blackkid2]

into his studies as well as just maintaining himself as a person. This comes at a cost as he cannot constantly be up-to-date with you as a person. This means that he may be forced to, without notice, go and work for long periods of time on the studies and as such whilst he wishes he could contact you may be limited by the demands of his endeavors.

The Worst: He's a typical man who sings like a songbird but only to lull maidens to their deaths. The sport of getting you to do something you were

[blackkid2]

adamantly against was only too great to ignore. The sport completed at your admittance there was simply no reason to maintain anything but marginal contact in order to to ensure for as long as possible that the game continued. The slow crushing feeling you feel is the realization that this is true and that you have been manipulated into a rigorous trap.

[blackkid2]

Okay, time for me to disappear.

[sesetia]

thank you so much for your great analyze ..i feel your so right in everything you said...thanks alooot

[Anonymous]

i think you need to wait lnoger 3 days isn't a lot and more so if he has net problems.

[sesetia]

thank you so much I will wait sure...lets hope for the best

[Opinion Owner]

good luck !

[Anonymous]

dont over think things

[Jeca8]

He is a player