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I think women really do care what "others" say about them, so they don't ask guys out for fear of women judging them and also ofcourse fear of rejection. Or do you think women just don't ask guys out as much because they judge themselves? they don't want to seem desperate?

if you are a guy would you judge a girl if you hear that she asked her guy out and she pursued her guy?
if you are a girl, how would you feel if you asked the guys out all the time and no guys asked you out? and if you are in a relationship, you are the one buying presents and planning trips that are to their liking while they are just sounding annoyed by you?

I’m sorry but she’s grossing me out so much. She doesn’t even remember how many people she’s slept with. We’ve been friends since grade school. Every time I tell her to slow down, she says “I’m just going through my hoe phase, every girl has a hoe phase and sleeps with a ton of guys. Stop judging me”. Ugh

Girl 1
She wears lululemon yoga pants, tank tops, t shirts with her favorite singers or tv shows, and cute skinny jeans. She’s not very sporty, but wears tennis shoes because they’re comfy and her hair is tied up in a messy bun or ponytail. She loves instagramming and staying up late in a cozy bed watching her favorite Netflix shows and eating (who doesn’t love eating?) She is well rounded, smart but not nerdy, and does dancing. She is loud and confident on the outside but on the inside she’s sometimes a bit insecure. She loves partying and enjoying the moment. She has lots of casual friends she visits on the weekends, and she’s helpful if you need her.

Girl 2
She wears plaid skirts and t shirts, also tight dresses and pencil skirts. Her hair is shoulder length and, with side bangs, and straightened. she. Never plays sports. She is very very shy and has only two riends, because it takes a while to gain her trust, however, once you do, she is caring and always there for you to cheer you up. She stays with you and talks about whatever you want without ever judging you. She is very sweet and helpful and can be talkative when you are alone, and she loves cuddling, however, in public she is very shy and and can act cold nd shuns away from you. As you know her better you discover she loves studying history and can babble about it endlessly with a passion, and an extremely talented pianist. She loves writing and writes about romance and adventure, but she is a bit too shy to let you read them and you’re curious.

Girl 3
She wears yoga pants, tennis shoes, and tight athletic shirts. She’s always up for action and loves Traveling with you. She’ll tell you anything you need to know and is determined and focused, and to the point. She loves the outdoors and the unknown and is articulate and confident and strong. She prefers an action-filled lifestyle and is a strong feminist. She works hard and is trustworthy and indepedent and loyal.

I am starting to try and make friends, and I have been sitting out (this Monday and Wed) with some ladies (all four of us total) and just learning to socialize (I don't really socialize that much, especially in my culture). I just feel like I am secretly judging myself really harshly. Like they were talking about going to the doctors, and not wanting to go to the regular doctor but go the the ENT right away (I have to go to the regular doctor than the ENT if I get a referral). one of the girls says she has been putting off not going to the allergist if she is not really sick. I just was curious if there was universal health care where they were from, and if that was better than the insurance they had here in the US (one is from Taiwan and one is from columbia south america)... anyways got really awkward and I felt like the one from south america just left after that... and then we all just kind of left and to make my mood worst It started raining... I felt like they were all judging me... like I had no social skills and I ask stupid questions...

My social skill is pretty bad... like a -10 on a scale of 1-10. I have a hard time trying to ask intelligent and interesting questions to get to know people. I also have awkward time trying to ask people to hang out and I some times wonder if people like me. I judge myself really harshly. I do not know if people think these things in their heads while talking to an awkward and socially inept person.

Do you judge others harshly? Do you judge yourself harshly? do you think people judge you harshly?