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Okay well I didn’t plan on this happening but I live with my abusive boyfriend who I don’t love but am scared to leave. He hit me one day and told me to find someone else. I did that and met my coworker. We started just as friends with benefits. It was nice at first he had an ex girlfriend who basically is abusive Nd fights girls he tries to talk to. I am still living with my abusing boyfriend. Then we started to fall in love. We started catching feelings both of us started getting jealous but then I guess one day it just clicked we had feelings for eachother, he can’t express himself so he never fully says what he thinks. He started getting jealous over my boyfriend and I told him I liked him and wanted him. It is bad to cheat I know but it felt like I needed to talk to him it felt like time stopped all around me when I met him. He just kinda beats around the bush and will say he wants to be with me. I then told him I’m really depressed and he said why are you depressed when you have me now? He then doesn’t really answer my calls and texts and it’s just like he says he wants me but then acts a different way on social media and texting. I can’t help but feel love. I don't know why this happened this way

For example, if your SO was unhappy in your relationship but scared to talk to you about it, and finds solace in a male friend, talks to him everyday and begins to develop feelings for them, BUT they haven’t had sex with each other.

OR if your SO went to a party, got intoxicated and had once off sex with a stranger who they don’t know and will never see again..
Which is worse? Could you forgive either?