Search Results: talking to an abusive guy

Help me plan a date?

So I'm going to ask this guy I really like out, we're still getting to know each other but I've liked him for a few months now without him knowing, since I've only started showing it in the last two weeks or so. Problem...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Persue her or not (Do I have a chance with her)?

Hi. Please, I need all the input I can get. Especially from the ladies. I work as a bartender in a really nice bar in Liverpool. I love working there becuase of the place, the colleagues and the custumers. I fell in...

Brian-Brain

Xper 6 Age: 42

How do I get over a guy lying about our whole relationship and hiding that he had a family?

day I met him he was sweet and very confident. I was wearing a dress going on a night out but took the bus. he came on and said where you going all dressed up. we got talking then he took my number. he was super easy to...

Fleur-Rose

Xper 5 Age: 33

What should I do with an abusive boyfriend?

Where do i start off. My name is Maegen and i am 20 years old. Me and my bf have been together for over 2 years now. He started to change after we where together for one year. He checks me all the time to see if there...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why are men who want sex abusive to women who want it?

I've met 2 guys recently. Online. I agreed to do sexual things with them implying sex. One guy we went to my place after a first date cuz I was interested in getting oral. He is fat ugly. I'm beautiful young and hot. His...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys opinion: Talking to a new boyfriend about a past abusive partner? Should you and How?

I had an ex that did a lot of really fucked up things to me. He was really emotionally abusive and it almost reached a level of physical abuse. I went to therapy and worked on most of my issues concerning the relationship...

camille_1441

Xper 5 Age: 32

This relationship is replaying the bad over and over. I only hold on because I love him but I deserve respect?

I am currently pregnant by this guy. He actually dissappeared for a month after telling him. He can be sweet and do nice things but the more he is around the less and less respect I see unless he is gone for a week. Today...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Should my boyfriend love me more than his sister?

My boyfriend and his sister grew up with a drunk of a father who was abusive to their mother, so they are pretty close. We have been together for over a year now and we are talking about moving in together etc (im 23 and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Other

Does he still think of me?

So, this has happened around 4 months ago. I met this guy on a random chat site. He's from another state. He's 2 years older than me. I'm 15. On the first couple of days that we started talking, it went really well. He...

SSbree

Xper 3 Age: 26

Boyfriend talking to girls and got pics?

Here goes. A year ago I came out of an abusive relationship in which my ex would be violent but also cheated on me. Since then I met a lovely guy whilst living in a refuge and we have been together for a few months. He...

Tashhh

Xper 5 Age: 35

Flirting

Do I actually like this guy or am I just infatuated?

So there's this guy I've known since 2010. He would ask to hang out at least two out of the four weekends a month for almost a year straight. I wasn't ready for anything because I had just gotten out of an abusive...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why are some guys such controlling abusive users?

One of my exes would call like 11 times in one day. Would call then ring back. He would say where are you etc. I think he was trying to control me though. He actually said to me once shut up or im gonna slap you in...

kindgirl21

Xper 5 Age: 33

Has a great love ever come back to you?

I was with a guy when I was 14. Online relationship blabla. What made this currently occuring situation remarkable was that even after this messy childish relationship, anyone and everyone who I've been with, for 5 coming...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girlfriend dumped 19 year old guy and got back with ex, is this possible?

For months, I been seeing this 19, now 20 year old guy who told me that his last girlfriend dumped him and got back with her ex. My dad's telling me that he sounds like nothing but a liar and that all guys that age are....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why are some guys such assholes?

I'm obviously not talking about all guys but my now ex boyfriend was a complete ass in our relationship. Over the past year of the relationship he started picking fights with me, threatening to smash windows in my house...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Other

Guys- Do guys regret ending relationships?

I was in a relationship with a guy for five years.. he really did care about me and love me.. we had our ups and down and he is a really sensitive like more feminine than most guys. I did some terrible things which I...

chickenandchips

Xper 4 Age: 33

Break Up & Divorce

Was I considered to be emotionally abusive with my ex?Are these reasons for her to break up with me?

We were in a serious relationship for a year and a half 1 year LDR because I was forced in the army for a year, and still till now, its the toughest year iam having, and iam really struggling in. During the distance.. I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why can no guy keep my attention anymore?

Grant it, I've been in an abusive relationship two years ago and just got burned by another psycho and a manipulative guy friend earlier this year, I'm just not captivated by men anymore. I want the attention and to talk,...

Anonymous

(30-35)