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There's a girl I fell hard for on the first day of this semester when my eyes first met hers. We both completely stopped in our tracks and looked into each others eyes for a while. On the 2nd day I found her standing behind me and we talked for a bit before class. After two weeks I asked her if she'd want to grab coffee with me - she turned me down.

Something didn't seem right, so I left her alone and avoided her for about 2 months. I would catch her looking at me in class - something inside told me not to pursue her, that I was just seeing what I wanted to see,and she wasn't interested in me.

Then one day she she starts flirting with me very hard. Walking by me and slowing down to a stop and stare me in the eyes. She even went so far as to walk all the way to my desk and stared at me till I looked up and saw her.

So, against my better judgment, I walked up to her and started talking to her again, her face immediately brightened up, as I started walking away, she followed me and kept talking with me. After the next class, I "felt" her behind me, I turned and smiled at her and she immediately starting glowing and even laughed at a dumb joke I made, so I decided to ask her if she would want to do something with me sometime, she said maybe and was all smiles. I asked her to think about it and said I'd see her next class

That class is tomorrow, and up until I found her myspace today while looking for something else, I just don't know what to do

She has pictures of herself kissing this guy, he's her #1 friend and she his, however they both say their relationship status is divorced, and the comments from the pictures are 2-3 months old.

Her last blog, dated a week before she starting hitting on recently, had the following:

"I believe that I have felt more love in two weeks than many people experience in their entire lives. To think it is reciprocated is priceless. These things should not be thrown away easily. I They are worth an unspeakable amount. I don't want to replicate them; I want to keep the things I have.

Life's successes should be measured in how many souls you touch and how deeply you love. It is the single biggest truth about humanity- love heals all. We all need it.

We all deserve to find happiness. When it's staring you in the face and you see it but don't know how to get to it, you still should accept it. Let it in. It will find its way. And if it doesn't then it wasn't your happiness to begin with. You are worth more than this world has to offer so if your dreams are given to you. You must take them.

Choose who you love wisely and when you've made a decision you stick by it until it turns into ash. You decide who you love and it's the difficulties you go through that reconfirm you made a good decision. Humans will always let you down. But we also have the capability to continue to love no matter how hard things get"



What does this all mean? I feel so lost, is that guy her ex-boyfriend? What do I do now? Please Help