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Pros:

-Loving

-Caring

-Wants to have a relationship with God

-Cares deeply for me

-Committed to me

-Left his family for me

-Made plans to marry me and take care of me

-We have history

-He is funny

-Makes me feel safe

-Protective

-Does a lot for me regarding buying me food or movie tickets

-We know each other very well

-He is open with me

-He respects me

-He takes care of me to the best of his ability

-Nice to me

-He makes me feel better when he is around

-Sometimes he comes to me and makes me feel better when I am down

-He is a very good shoulder to cry on

-He is good with kids and good at keeping them happy

-I have been with him for almost 2 years now (known him for 3)

-We are engaged and have been engaged for a few months now

-We have done many firsts together (but we have not had sex yet)

-he loves me for me

-I am deeply in love with him and have never cared about anyone more

Cons:

-can be very negative

-Religious (wants me to be a Lutheran- I don't mind, but he is chained to it and a slave to it)

-Can’t handle stress (recently he tried to kill himself because he had too much pressure)

-Needs help in what he does- dependent

-Doesn’t keep his word

-Suicidal

-Temper

-Manipulative

-No initiative

-Can be verbally abusive

-Can be tormenting and mean

-His attitude is based off of his circumstances

-Sometimes when I want him to come find me and make everything alright he doesn’t and I have to go find him to fix whatever is wrong

-He doesn’t do ‘out of his way’ nice gestures, like buying me flowers, etc. and he never did

-When I get upset about something not involving him he thinks I’m mad at him

-Talks the talk and doesn't walk the walk (or keep his word at times)

-the way he proposed to me was not gentlemanly. he purposefully made me angry all day long so that I wouldn't suspect anything, and he proposed to me while we were fighting

-his family does not accept me and slanders me, despite him leaving them he allows them to do so

and just to clear things up, these are the traits/actions of a SO. I described a male but it could be a female I guess.