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Mind you, he's in the army, he's not here right now.
We started dating when he was out there but known each other since 10 years ago, reunited while he was away.
Been together a year so far...

Broke up with me 6 months into the relationship saying, "I've never been committed before and don't know how it is to be with one female. You're a good woman and I don't want to end up hurting you. I did lie about being a Trump supporter and I did lie about wanting some serious in the future because I was trying to be the guy you needed and I don't think I can be. My mouth also gets me into trouble and I don't want to hurt you, I really don't. You don't need an asshole like me."

Then I respected his wishes and he I said I wish you the best and thank you for being honest with me. We hung up. He calls back like two hours later and says "I'm so sorry, please forgive me. I can't leave you, I really do love you and I'll do whatever it takes to be the man you deserve. I don't want to let you go, you mean a lot to me. I have to stop being a dick and just grow the hell up. It's not everyday I can meet a good woman like you."


After I forgive him, he says that when he broke up with him, he told his buddy and his buddy said, "Why would you break up with her? She's the only one who's there and does everything for you and helps you out. You need her!" So, that's what made him call me back, I'm assuming. I just feel why would he tell me what his friend told him if his friend meant wrong by it. You know?


What do you think his friend meant by that? Is he using me and saying that oh she's all you've got don't let her go. Or is he saying don't let her go she's a good woman, like he's stupid for that?

So I really like my co worker and he really likes me back too but I worry it's a bad idea even though other co worker's have suggested we should date and I only know one couple who worked together and it didn't work out and that was only because the guy was a sleazy cheat and the girl was desperate and naive but I know a lot of elderly couples who first met at work and have been happily together for years including my grandparents.

We even have other couples at my work but their in higher positions and are older and it's a very small company there's only 28 of us and we're all very close, were like one big family but I also think that could make it worst if it didn't work out but he wants to join the army eventually so if it didn't work out he could just go to the army instead. We are total opposites too he's a big softie who kinda follows the crowd and I'm very a feisty, rebellious person who's a "bit out there" but I think that are opposite personalities complement each other.