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Why am I so defensive towards men?

I've been hurt by men before really bad add to that the whistling, cat-calling, oggling,  harrassment... etc so yes it makes me hate them but i feel like im at a point where i can't let my walls down even if i wanted to...
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Autoimmune Disease: What You See Is NOT Always What You Get

So as some of you may know, I have RA (Rheumatoid Arthritis) which happens to be an autoimmune disease. I wrote a Take on it awhile back. You can check that out here: Take on RA My goal with with this Take is to focus...
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Can men honestly just not be ready to be vulnerable again (emotionally unavailable) versus you just not being the right woman?

It's only been 5 months since he got out of a on/off relationship. She then admitted to being a lesbian and is kinda harassing him, trying to make him be friends with her despite hurting him like that. He doesn't talk...
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Could I have a broken/fractured rib from my intense severe cough?

So for past 3 months or so I had a bad cough. I have asthma but I have never suffered with coughs in my life at all before. So out of nowhere I never understood why I suddenly suffer with a cough. As I am prone to get...
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Is he clueless or insensitive?

Sometimes my boyfriend can be so insensitive that there's no turning him around. I'll tell him he's being mean and he laughs in an evil way like "muahaha I know" or I'll be like you know you're a huge douche and he's like...
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How to be a Great Ex

I used to have this saying when I was single and had a hard time finding a relationship: "You know, I make a great ex-girlfriend.  In fact, guys should date me just so I can become their ex!" I didn't call them, I didn't...
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Is the damage done and the relationship over? What do I do, it was so extreme?

My boyfriend of one year and I had our first big big fight. I asked him to remove his ex girlfriend on fb not bc she was his ex but long story short she keeps doing weird stuff on fb at or towards our relationship. My...
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I don't now if I'm dealing with her the right way, any help?

Long story short, I met this girl. We got close, things looked good, then she tells me she's dating. A complete jackass. She breaks up anyway, then we start getting close again. I asked her out on a date, a few minutes...
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My take on MGTOW (Men Going Their Own Way)

People argue about feminism and whether or not it is actually for equality or perhaps it is more about maintaining female privelege where society is compelled to allways favor women over men. Generally I am critical of...
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What Someone Thinks of You is None of Your Business

Imagine you are meeting your significant other’s parents and through no fault of yours, they don’t like you.  You try everything to impress but it just makes life worse for you.  You become someone less than who you are...
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My panic attacks make me want to die?

I've been dealing with panic attacks for about three years now.   Mostly, I've learned to cope. I'd gone from panicking everyday,  especially at night,  and being a sleep deprived bundle of nerves constantly to panicking...
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Should I be the one to suck it up or are they being irrational?

My friend is pissed at me over what happened more than 5 months ago. 5 months ago, she called me annoying in school and made me cry. I got over it we were good. Now it is 5 months later, and she makes me cry again by...
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What are some things that would make a guy complain?

I read this one comment on an article and he basically was saying how this why guys look girls crazy when they bring up a problem. Guys rarely complain about anything in a relationship. It's always a girl. I thought maybe...
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Need a lot of advice on what I should do?

so i know I've posted a lot about this situation and im sorry its just that it has me so messed up physically and emotionally. my boyfriend and i broke up a few weeks ago and we agreed to be friends then we decied that...
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Dealing with the embarrassment of having a significant other who used to be a whore?

Despite whatever opinions and views you generally have about sexuality, the reality is that promiscuous people tend to abandon integrity, decency, tact, and consideration for the feelings of others. There are seldom...
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How to Treat a Depressed Person: What to Do and What Not to Do

If you have experienced being a part of a depressed person's life, you may have been lost of words. It can be hard to reach out to them. You may end up saying the wrongs things, which can hurt them or even anger them....
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"If you fall in love with two people at once, choose the second." ITS NOT THAT EASY. what do I do?

Dealing with depression, anxiety, and choosing between two guys who are willing to give me the world. However, I've been with one of them in a committed relationship for 8 months and he's long distance. It's been really...
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The Wrong Thing To Do When Someone Comes To You With A Problem

Whether you are comparing your problems to the problems of others around you or if you are comparing a friends situation to seemingly bigger issues, you are doing something incredibly damaging. Comparing problems is...
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Girls, How do I play this right?

This girl and I dated briefly a few years back. We had strong feelings for each other but it was just a crazy situation. She was very young at the time and I was in a back and forth with an ex I had been with for a long...
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Dealing with ideals - what's your ideal body type?

This isn't a trap question to get people to answer so that I can chew them out, I promise. This isn't also a question that is intended to shame anyone or cause any hurt feelings or pain towards anyone. I am asking this...
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