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Personally I take relationships very seriously. My boyfriend and I have been together less than 6 months, but we've already planned out our long-term goals. But I'll see people in relationships for 5-10 years with no plans of marriage or girls post online every couple of months about a new guy they claim they want to marry, but inevitably break up

I don't think you have to be together a certain length of time for a relationship to become serious. It depends on how serious you are about it. Yet some people think they're being serious when they're really rushing into things

We have been speaking for about two weeks. We haven’t met up in person yet. It was tentative last week however I stated that I rather re schedule. He said he didn’t mind however we continue to message everyday. I said we should reschedule for this Sunday, however, I ended up having to go to Disney and can’t see him again. I told him in advance so I don’t come across as wanting to stand him up and am interested in planning ahead. His response to when I told him about not meeting up this weekend was “it’s okay we have a lot of time”. He was the one who followed through more last week to meet up. But didn’t seem disappointed with not being able to meet up this weekend or last weekend. When he messages me, he’s very casual like “hey what’s up”. He mentioned that he doesn’t want to rush into a relationship but would pursue a relationship if a connection was present. I thought he wanted something casual because when we talk, it’s the way you’d check up on a friend not a potential partner. He said that he’s enjoyed talking to me and likes the conversation we have going.

I removed this guy from SC after speaking to him for a few days. He gave me the vibe that he only wanted something casual then hit me up on IG to ask why I deleted him. It seems as if he’s giving me another shot but I don't know. I feel so bad about myself that if this doesn’t work out (which it probably won’t), I will feel worse about myself. If someone won’t rush into a relationship, then they’re going to be talking to other people and will weigh their options.